tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26929588260982149522024-03-17T02:27:10.938-04:00Chief 187 ChatterA mom with a lot on her mind looking for an outlet for her writing and an expanded friend base. I am the Crew Chief of my family.Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.comBlogger725125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-42678427958652092532023-07-16T06:58:00.001-04:002023-07-16T06:58:54.783-04:00Finding Joy in Life By: Candice Smith<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5JTtlkyZprxw56OWEbf6ueuiqO5Zpz99LDQK7MNZlVJt-fdOWkaYkW_5lxlullQWvG1kVA0TaQDt-nieUKypaoVaAxk68jUESQc5wJQtLkkD3H14GpX_EayzhJbvhdjIijFwqxu0oR8QvVa7nCGSDj7n6hpu9MEdWgHlYDcQGoyIDu-G-Ov3HKolE4RXi/s275/JOY.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="183" data-original-width="275" height="183" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5JTtlkyZprxw56OWEbf6ueuiqO5Zpz99LDQK7MNZlVJt-fdOWkaYkW_5lxlullQWvG1kVA0TaQDt-nieUKypaoVaAxk68jUESQc5wJQtLkkD3H14GpX_EayzhJbvhdjIijFwqxu0oR8QvVa7nCGSDj7n6hpu9MEdWgHlYDcQGoyIDu-G-Ov3HKolE4RXi/s1600/JOY.jpg" width="275" /></a></div><br /> <p></p><p>Do you experience Life, or are you just living? </p><p>Does each minute, each moment resonate, or are you wishing time away?</p><p>Are you present, or is time washing over you in a blur?</p><p>These questions are difficult to answer, especially if the answers come from the second half of the questions.</p><p>But, it is never too late to recalibrate, re-prioritize, and start being an active participant in your life. </p><p>As routines fall into place, bills need to be paid, and Life's demands start to pile up, it is incredibly easy to get bogged down in endless to-do lists, a work/sleep cycle, and no time to "stop and smell the roses". But, that is not Life, it is just living.</p><p>The goal is balance.</p><p>B-A-L-A-N-C-E.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihwoWhdsmmdWdb3Z77j4ZQcbcie7Qt7sGvTWtpmSCRbMoLcwsD5LbyovNxX0V5dm2nzbBqLtrmgGolSIft8t-H-deVA_UiPs6ov7RqEsTiDBQAu9rfN_wX9Gue62ge_K55WW8HJh9PsvztvwIx3HXpIF44UTdK1pHXrwKMOEGyxVCebzcy2UPEErIoMML4/s300/balance.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="168" data-original-width="300" height="168" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEihwoWhdsmmdWdb3Z77j4ZQcbcie7Qt7sGvTWtpmSCRbMoLcwsD5LbyovNxX0V5dm2nzbBqLtrmgGolSIft8t-H-deVA_UiPs6ov7RqEsTiDBQAu9rfN_wX9Gue62ge_K55WW8HJh9PsvztvwIx3HXpIF44UTdK1pHXrwKMOEGyxVCebzcy2UPEErIoMML4/s1600/balance.jpg" width="300" /></a></div><p>Finding time for sleeping, eating, working, chores, and errands needs to be balanced with finding and experiencing joy.</p><p>Joy is different for everyone. For some, reading, pampering, and watching television brings joy. For others, sport, competition, and activity sparks joy. Still, others will have an entirely different criteria for joy. And some may not have any idea what brings them joy at all.</p><p>That is part of the problem in American life today. Joy has been all but omitted by most. In turn, joy has been replaced by fear, paranoia, insomnia, and an over-inflated sense of self-sacrifice. Healthy eating, exercise, sleep, and relaxation are no longer priorities and so many suffer.</p><p>It is time to put "You" back in your life's equation. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_e8olChExORV1qxNq0ER4a9XPd_N3TYLJHj0jBP_wj57DmogZBo1OcmDO72vO61F1-CSMm8dHJadJVahjKanCZZA_jhU7-lVJp0ZGhmPWS6oOg0NxHewLoNJTIW64ei8wKRwJFCFEaG9LeVTWG0O5HusNw7LOLz4VixQq8pZeu9jepo1CJ4V7A8zQ7Eqf/s206/Equation%20of%20life.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="179" data-original-width="206" height="179" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_e8olChExORV1qxNq0ER4a9XPd_N3TYLJHj0jBP_wj57DmogZBo1OcmDO72vO61F1-CSMm8dHJadJVahjKanCZZA_jhU7-lVJp0ZGhmPWS6oOg0NxHewLoNJTIW64ei8wKRwJFCFEaG9LeVTWG0O5HusNw7LOLz4VixQq8pZeu9jepo1CJ4V7A8zQ7Eqf/s1600/Equation%20of%20life.jpg" width="206" /></a></div><p>Start small.</p><p>For one week, carve out a mere five minutes for yourself. That's right, only 300 seconds. Think about what makes you joyful. If you already know, make a plan or embark on doing it, whatever it is. Five minutes a day for a week. If you don't know what truly brings you joy, use the five minutes each day to explore what that might be for you. </p><p>The next week, week two, spend 15 minutes exploring your joy. Set a timer. Let your mind go. </p><p>During week three expand the daily time to 20 minutes per day. That is a solid dose of time!</p><p>And, finally, on week four, take a full 30 minutes. </p><p>When this fits into your life easily and happily, you are well on your way to a more joyful life. </p><p>When you feel you can spare more time - do it!</p><p><b>You are worth the investment in time, and you deserve to have a life filled with Joy!</b></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-_1VR5Nuwmaoo01RVJlV8dTqLuyIRb6BjRWSAijGy0-ryHueNwH9gCR0Azd-QlWDULsZbu3p8bP4gIpB6fYGG2gyxVCefBUV1zn3WAeVapfBnguSQJ4x4rbyGxCfoO5bUfjc4krpMi5Vu6ABaq33X6bfsU4JvPY51Y8sy4rVvjP5dem2KvNqC8wFn4SMg/s245/choose%20joy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="206" data-original-width="245" height="206" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj-_1VR5Nuwmaoo01RVJlV8dTqLuyIRb6BjRWSAijGy0-ryHueNwH9gCR0Azd-QlWDULsZbu3p8bP4gIpB6fYGG2gyxVCefBUV1zn3WAeVapfBnguSQJ4x4rbyGxCfoO5bUfjc4krpMi5Vu6ABaq33X6bfsU4JvPY51Y8sy4rVvjP5dem2KvNqC8wFn4SMg/s1600/choose%20joy.jpg" width="245" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-90013286941764358472023-05-28T07:56:00.002-04:002023-05-28T07:56:49.656-04:00Anticipation By: Candice Smith<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiK0jTL9eE-y06FiHZMVFXiUq3aDoGEbang2v9omkESklSS-P1xmeAXuyU9T8iHGI4F-BpPFXsZBdgU-th3JyE9PUa-zXelbFAWDc7xvTZRj3Gzv-81yU5rRXsU3D-VDyan3QfsFLM91nVY6tDkosdgKTNGgD2G_5-2SEfO_zVPuRTLNk3e_PXI6W62-g/s1000/The%20Joy%20of%20Anticipation.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="765" data-original-width="1000" height="245" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiK0jTL9eE-y06FiHZMVFXiUq3aDoGEbang2v9omkESklSS-P1xmeAXuyU9T8iHGI4F-BpPFXsZBdgU-th3JyE9PUa-zXelbFAWDc7xvTZRj3Gzv-81yU5rRXsU3D-VDyan3QfsFLM91nVY6tDkosdgKTNGgD2G_5-2SEfO_zVPuRTLNk3e_PXI6W62-g/s320/The%20Joy%20of%20Anticipation.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><p>There are those who do not understand why I anticipate with excitement <span style="color: red;">Christmas</span> all throughout the year. They question my sanity, or, at the very least, my judgement. In truth, I anticipate with excitement <i><b>every day of the year</b></i>. But, by putting emphasis on special days or events throughout the year, it ups my <b><span style="color: #274e13;">JOY </span></b>factor! And, it can increase yours, too!</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjohZKaYRe6FokypULYYN4LVg7BoSGoch5JwnqQy7zz84PxL_QSYxs9tki75ZwRU-IIi0PNKfkT-tl5m4el8u3meQA5ITGURAi5u94fVMy_mJvXpSRP-Bpy79qmf32fAN9zh8KmWUTIPoNLCVo2eCzvOQ3BOj_CLuo3KvmxTuhq6I_AvJxIh_uttpj12w/s910/Birthday%20cake.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="910" data-original-width="750" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjohZKaYRe6FokypULYYN4LVg7BoSGoch5JwnqQy7zz84PxL_QSYxs9tki75ZwRU-IIi0PNKfkT-tl5m4el8u3meQA5ITGURAi5u94fVMy_mJvXpSRP-Bpy79qmf32fAN9zh8KmWUTIPoNLCVo2eCzvOQ3BOj_CLuo3KvmxTuhq6I_AvJxIh_uttpj12w/s320/Birthday%20cake.jpg" width="264" /></a></div><p>Think back to childhood when waiting for your <span style="color: #2b00fe;">birthday </span>was a yearlong event. Whether it was planning a party with a theme that delighted you, growing older to gain more privileges, or simply getting gifts you longed for, the anticipation of one's birthday was - is - all-encompassing. Of course, you'd live and enjoy every day, but thinking about your birthday - anticipating it - made your birthday all the more special. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEij4r1yyavamMHHGZFR7CgwsXQQOEJrsOSO1igtHmC8omUXpn1oIQyrSycQVSmx4htg_UnQdtPAuQGUzcOuD_3s28lNcxvEqjwB4zjXisafbbyldliMCZBG-uSV37vTloO_kHuSkOia45Q3RdpovkilX8Z5_xkniIpj-qpypAN0IXT1Hy_xiqx3zpZ6aQ/s600/Vacation%20word%20cloud.webp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="475" data-original-width="600" height="253" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEij4r1yyavamMHHGZFR7CgwsXQQOEJrsOSO1igtHmC8omUXpn1oIQyrSycQVSmx4htg_UnQdtPAuQGUzcOuD_3s28lNcxvEqjwB4zjXisafbbyldliMCZBG-uSV37vTloO_kHuSkOia45Q3RdpovkilX8Z5_xkniIpj-qpypAN0IXT1Hy_xiqx3zpZ6aQ/s320/Vacation%20word%20cloud.webp" width="320" /></a></div><p>Another example of anticipation enhancing the joy factor is vacations. Time off from school/work is wonderful. If a trip is part of vacation, all the better to anticipate, but it's not even necessary. Anticipation of time off, lack of responsibility, and free time to pursue your heart's content is potent enough to keep you motivated at school/work to get to said vacation. As for a trip during that time off, anticipation is a pre-requisite! Often my anticipation of my impending vacation is better than my vacation! I dream of every detail - what I'll wear, where I'll go, the restaurants I'll eat in, stores I'll shop in, sites I'll see. It's always perfect in my anticipation. In reality, my trips are never perfect. Invariably things go wrong, and even if it is a brilliantly wonderful vacation, the anticipation of the vacation enhanced the vacation tenfold.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMr54ZEKkmsJl7M9XT05jclBmYCIU9qhqJkh6TjeovWrPKWVY49ix7z4lEgjPtEcLQLC-Hi5S0YHKwXVn12M-Q0IGcMKEhiQ_ESnIyW1fsjTnX35sID_nMAHLM9jIndiW3n0fbLJvmolSo0qbunUHDxaKkdhpk15P43og3YKlqD3-QU7IvAAeSzTjp2Q/s525/pexels%20christmas%20tree%20with%20ornies.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="350" data-original-width="525" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMr54ZEKkmsJl7M9XT05jclBmYCIU9qhqJkh6TjeovWrPKWVY49ix7z4lEgjPtEcLQLC-Hi5S0YHKwXVn12M-Q0IGcMKEhiQ_ESnIyW1fsjTnX35sID_nMAHLM9jIndiW3n0fbLJvmolSo0qbunUHDxaKkdhpk15P43og3YKlqD3-QU7IvAAeSzTjp2Q/s320/pexels%20christmas%20tree%20with%20ornies.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="text-align: left;">Finally, </span><span style="color: red; text-align: left;">Christmas</span><span style="text-align: left;">. Since my earliest memories Christmas season has brought me so much unlimited </span><span style="color: #274e13; text-align: left;">joy</span><span style="text-align: left;">. In my home of origin as a child I had to wait until December for my parents to put up our tree and decorate for Christmas. The artificial tree would be assembled in the living room. It was so lovely. Then twinkling multi-colored lights were wrapped around. Finally, ornaments collected over my parents' lives together were hung on its branches. In the rest of the house my mother placed scant few decorations around - a knit Santa Claus pillow/doll on the couch, a small Christmas tree in the window, and we all pinned our Christmas stockings on the beautiful wooden mantel. I was mesmerized by the entire scene. Each day in December I would run home after school and sit at the base of the Christmas tree. It called to me, exhilarated me, and fed my inner soul. Like birthdays, time-off and vacations, Christmas anticipating was always more wonderful than actual </span><span style="color: red; text-align: left;">Christmas</span><span style="text-align: left;">!</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg71X6eN2wb-ljV-2q866yE1_CUbenF68-g_4-lYWr4u2sTw3aV9Tf21JxKx7oW9iZywzSLWkNymwTAS_IW3fhlluQTyUt1C-c3jSQczJp1zmx48BfUVybStLzdvNPKAt_nyEjmzo6BmYxlWU2EDb2Hn68qhdv-ieHZehjGIR6thpsUYjQDn2C-k1lv4A/s512/calendar.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="512" data-original-width="512" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg71X6eN2wb-ljV-2q866yE1_CUbenF68-g_4-lYWr4u2sTw3aV9Tf21JxKx7oW9iZywzSLWkNymwTAS_IW3fhlluQTyUt1C-c3jSQczJp1zmx48BfUVybStLzdvNPKAt_nyEjmzo6BmYxlWU2EDb2Hn68qhdv-ieHZehjGIR6thpsUYjQDn2C-k1lv4A/s320/calendar.png" width="320" /></a></div></div><p>In truth, I anticipate each day of the year. Daily I look forward to seeing my colleagues and students at school. I anticipate a spot of free time for a restorative nap. I've learned to anticipate and appreciate a much-needed workout. I anticipate and cherish time with my children, friends, and especially my husband. My <span style="color: #2b00fe;">birthday</span>, time-off, vacations, concerts, plays/musicals, reading books, hiking, watching favorite TV shows or movies, time with my family, my husband, and alone are all things I anticipate. <span style="color: red;">Christmas</span>, when I look forward and anticipate it all year long, gives me enormous pleasure all year long, especially when I share the anticipation with others.</p><p>Try anticipating things with pleasure in your life, you will find how much happier it can make every day.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUBS1Uq331PY-nTr0yTEbZaWzWDCmeQnwWQIvm8aFHzJGylTIF3B0ObxT3xXL1iYtR63gHZn4g286NNivN6UP3q5ISB6jDwDCLsLs9GDAJY6GU-Ryp35DnK6jh-V0KgWwHkeXYiy11FdM1tHnzMCURE5UG-B_ZL442pJ0ONJrfHDw_KztNxfDjWxC0og/s1800/Christmas%20Candi%20heart%20dress.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1800" data-original-width="1440" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgUBS1Uq331PY-nTr0yTEbZaWzWDCmeQnwWQIvm8aFHzJGylTIF3B0ObxT3xXL1iYtR63gHZn4g286NNivN6UP3q5ISB6jDwDCLsLs9GDAJY6GU-Ryp35DnK6jh-V0KgWwHkeXYiy11FdM1tHnzMCURE5UG-B_ZL442pJ0ONJrfHDw_KztNxfDjWxC0og/s320/Christmas%20Candi%20heart%20dress.jpg" width="256" /></a></div><br /><p>Remember, I love Christmas so much, I wrote my first book about it!</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQhqYBg7NUjzHY3rZusCmCufigjuI22EMiR5mIsh9zzhU26whGxwxVKgTt_zHgVT1QV-nCUVMgusQZqU1NwKwHYw0TF_Gn8vCHL3kAB5JL9HCrTu69GKS9Gq50apYsrWxhWQfgI5td2XGdt5r6ThtALDO8XemRWltOH-XDXiw7t3kuZtcys9sQreX1kA/s4000/Christmas_Candi_Display_2018-09.19.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2667" data-original-width="4000" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQhqYBg7NUjzHY3rZusCmCufigjuI22EMiR5mIsh9zzhU26whGxwxVKgTt_zHgVT1QV-nCUVMgusQZqU1NwKwHYw0TF_Gn8vCHL3kAB5JL9HCrTu69GKS9Gq50apYsrWxhWQfgI5td2XGdt5r6ThtALDO8XemRWltOH-XDXiw7t3kuZtcys9sQreX1kA/s320/Christmas_Candi_Display_2018-09.19.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p>Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-49649539499831443952023-04-30T09:44:00.000-04:002023-04-30T09:44:26.440-04:00Celebration of a Milestone!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDlxpwv45ywMZ2qc3DF5ICpnKDJCz2DxTo_MyK5b1dwKMn1e-GVRKvI_t8KxPd87o7QyQq2lDWI6aUIaTgpol4zdCcU1D9qz9I9E1t3bPNThhTKLSON95sgU3ZXMHB3afXWLgBeAqSoHZdHSAFfGlXjQLuBj5TdmblSPbUEZOyqIQjHxjkEvBdp9cJPg/s900/CS2129W.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="600" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhDlxpwv45ywMZ2qc3DF5ICpnKDJCz2DxTo_MyK5b1dwKMn1e-GVRKvI_t8KxPd87o7QyQq2lDWI6aUIaTgpol4zdCcU1D9qz9I9E1t3bPNThhTKLSON95sgU3ZXMHB3afXWLgBeAqSoHZdHSAFfGlXjQLuBj5TdmblSPbUEZOyqIQjHxjkEvBdp9cJPg/s320/CS2129W.jpg" width="213" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div>On September 13, 2010 - my middle son Greg's 4th birthday - I began my blog Chief 187™Chatter. I had been blogging at a NASCAR social media site called Rowdy and had cut my teeth writing daily about all things NASCAR and not-so-much NASCAR. It seemed time to branch out on my own and write about whatever I wanted to, and I did. It was liberating, fascinating, cathartic, and fun.</div><p>That led to great things: writing thousands of published articles, time on-air on both Internet and terrestrial radio, starting my own radio program with <span class="xv78j7m" spellcheck="false">Ronnie Crate Payne</span> and <span class="xv78j7m" spellcheck="false">Keith Hayes</span> on Anthony Arnold's station <span class="xv78j7m" spellcheck="false">Whoobazoo.com</span> called <span class="xv78j7m" spellcheck="false">Drafting the Circuits</span>. I was determined to make this career work and dedicated endless hours, days, weeks, months and years to getting drivers on our program - we started humbly with young drivers who were making names for themselves like the incredible Tyler Dippel. Through hard work, consistency, positivity, and sheer passion, we continued to secure fabulous personalities in the world of Motorsports. Eventually we hosted names like IndyCar celebrity Bobby Unser and current stars Charlie Kimball and Alexander Rossi, 10-time ARCA champion Frank Kimmel and champ Mason Mitchell, NASCAR Hall-of-Famer Bobby Allison, and the legendary, incomparable Mario Andretti. Each person we had on the show was treated with the same awe and dignity. In addition to the radio show, I continued to write articles and was honored to interview NASCAR Hall of Fame members Leonard and Glen Wood. And, I was granted media credentials under my name for NASCAR, IndyCar and Formula One races across the country. </p><p>During the summer of 2016 I had run my course with this part of my career. I had suffered some personal losses and there was a racing one as well. Those reasons in addition to having been elected to my town's Board of Education led me to step away from my Motorsports career, concentrate on my volunteer work, and set a new career goal.</p><p>Writing a book was something I had always wanted to do since I was a young child. Taking years of writings, experiences, and dreams, I published my first book, <i><b>Christmas Candi: A Guide To Year-round Holiday Bliss</b></i> in October 2018. On the day I contacted the publisher in July 2018, I was asked by another person in my life to write his life's story: he has played Santa Claus for over 70 years! My second book started the day my first went to the publisher! </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnrICy_WQXBieudgD66-k4XKylNeIZE68XWfMS7yqSRbXY2aNbwIgvC1JhzanLquyL5_viOWIhqGgZHjkfqzv8W1z1BxG0x6-x242lwCElgqq7ybFV6UYRTu-ziOphYPpBS364RI3FyuvWUWSfU1Bk1WoUnRzquHycvxaAGI1EixksYtS3BW3ovLd70g/s4000/Christmas_Candi_Display_2018-09.19.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2667" data-original-width="4000" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnrICy_WQXBieudgD66-k4XKylNeIZE68XWfMS7yqSRbXY2aNbwIgvC1JhzanLquyL5_viOWIhqGgZHjkfqzv8W1z1BxG0x6-x242lwCElgqq7ybFV6UYRTu-ziOphYPpBS364RI3FyuvWUWSfU1Bk1WoUnRzquHycvxaAGI1EixksYtS3BW3ovLd70g/s320/Christmas_Candi_Display_2018-09.19.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p><i><b>The Man Behind The Beard</b></i> published in the fall of 2019. By then I had begun work with a longtime friend on a third book, <i><b>Drafting the Culinary Circuits</b></i>. This was an innovative concept to follow the 2020 NASCAR circuit and devise recipes based on the local foods at each locale. This book dropped in winter 2020. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEim0pWzrgyPH0eUEA-e-lYkW11f43HTccOkK9wVLm-K-KOJffwy7LG_p0-Svl0obLnSEUQyIP5rosv_eXen-unW-6HLxFlNb7vQXAJx7106MV26WL_7o6980U4cFi3036nvyqwGLAj_h64M9Gdkl0o6dRmytgAgKtsEmekRrEYPsr9c-B6SqZrgsojzuA/s4000/The%20Man%20Behind%20the%20Beard%203D_Mockup_2019.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2667" data-original-width="4000" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEim0pWzrgyPH0eUEA-e-lYkW11f43HTccOkK9wVLm-K-KOJffwy7LG_p0-Svl0obLnSEUQyIP5rosv_eXen-unW-6HLxFlNb7vQXAJx7106MV26WL_7o6980U4cFi3036nvyqwGLAj_h64M9Gdkl0o6dRmytgAgKtsEmekRrEYPsr9c-B6SqZrgsojzuA/s320/The%20Man%20Behind%20the%20Beard%203D_Mockup_2019.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNU8BkZpL6TRTcY_F6pjeQuqIIQrw6GLXj7GjDvGlRtguEia280OoMfu5Tib_3gFVUWI07OdsZtWiDi-UC1i_0UdDqmXHSVXljmxEv2-zubzzQyAKnNOFwS23ZwVh3rSLZNMEF8uCS0NG10YyZuREJH9mCzUksKRZY3B_bEkx_GlJKaLf7_PQaCMQBtg/s499/DTCC%20cover.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="499" data-original-width="350" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgNU8BkZpL6TRTcY_F6pjeQuqIIQrw6GLXj7GjDvGlRtguEia280OoMfu5Tib_3gFVUWI07OdsZtWiDi-UC1i_0UdDqmXHSVXljmxEv2-zubzzQyAKnNOFwS23ZwVh3rSLZNMEF8uCS0NG10YyZuREJH9mCzUksKRZY3B_bEkx_GlJKaLf7_PQaCMQBtg/s320/DTCC%20cover.jpg" width="224" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p>In 16 months I saw my life's dream come to fruition: three books published under my name.</p><p>December 2017 found me back in the classroom, working as a paraprofessional to get back into the traditional workforce. I still work there finding much fulfillment working with students, always learning, and knowing my purpose. My Board of Education position lasted two full terms. Then I was appointed to the Board of Trustees at Sussex County Community College at the end of 2021. </p><p>And I write. I always write. Promote. Share. Communicate. Observe. </p><p>So, when I awoke this morning to find that my original blog site that I started over 12 years ago had reached a milestone - over 500,000 all-time page views - I was emotional. </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhpNVpYU4xw37jbwvj_VobjxdFC5HPi8trqahkzPAlzQ-7jzRQt1PZXjBfX3HG-DUmagk9FKFEvitInT3KRbjKYI95-S2Hsw0UahqiITm-9nyxApAyIwD05pu9jrE2NOx_SkybWYq-QwhoIzZo8GXI5x2DFF82uUzUUSFmHT6HcyYrWwUBXgkNmVQVtcA/s324/500000.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="155" data-original-width="324" height="153" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhpNVpYU4xw37jbwvj_VobjxdFC5HPi8trqahkzPAlzQ-7jzRQt1PZXjBfX3HG-DUmagk9FKFEvitInT3KRbjKYI95-S2Hsw0UahqiITm-9nyxApAyIwD05pu9jrE2NOx_SkybWYq-QwhoIzZo8GXI5x2DFF82uUzUUSFmHT6HcyYrWwUBXgkNmVQVtcA/s320/500000.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p>Yes, many blogs reach millions of eyes per day, so my numbers may be small, but I earned each and every view on my blog. When I started I was thrilled if a post found 10 viewers. I lost my mind when I had over 10,000 views on a piece, and then 20,000+.</p><p>Every once in a while I'll post a new blog, but mostly I promote an older piece that I am still so proud. Most recently I reposted "Wear The Swimsuit" and it still has wings.<br /></p><p>I will continue to write, to create, to say what's on my mind. </p><p>Today I want to thank you all for reading. For supporting my efforts. For leaving a comment. For sharing a post. For talking about my article or my book. </p><p>Each word I write, article I "pen", or book I create and publish is a labor of love. For you to read, embrace, think about, purchase, and mention is the highest accolade.</p><p>Thank you. </p><p>Please help me in celebrating this most epic milestone for my blog!</p><p>Peace.</p><p><br /></p>Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-9293847111383327862023-04-07T05:49:00.003-04:002023-04-07T05:49:48.002-04:00Quick and Easy Easter Recipes<p><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Easter time is a time of early spring, rebirth, pastels, Easter egg hunts, and family gatherings with tasty foods.</span></p><div class="separator" style="background-color: white; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px; text-align: center;"><a href="https://encrypted-tbn3.google.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcT1vN2W02GQhTWX_ibSxzUiPXVE1WKSOIHwdEHK_Bk3dG_gwGuQYA" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; color: #2288bb; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em; text-decoration-line: none;"><img border="0" height="194" src="https://encrypted-tbn3.google.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcT1vN2W02GQhTWX_ibSxzUiPXVE1WKSOIHwdEHK_Bk3dG_gwGuQYA" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 1px solid rgb(238, 238, 238); box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.1) 1px 1px 5px; padding: 5px; position: relative;" width="259" /></a></div><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Many think of ham, lamb, or turkey as the main dish for an Easter celebration, and those are truly wonderful meals. The side dishes like cheesy potatoes, mint jelly, and stuffing are great as well. Add a spring vegetable like asparagus and the Easter meal is complete.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">For those of you, however, who are not entertaining twenty-five people for dinner, do not like a roast, or are vegetarian, these meals don’t quite fit the bill.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Or, if you are doing one of these meals but want a supplemental dish that complements your spread but is unique as well, this meal is perfect.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">I’m convinced, although I’m not by birth, that somehow I am Italian. I adore the Italians family values and their embrace of a huge spread on holidays and ANY day!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Pasta Primavera literally means spring pasta.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><b style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Pasta Primavera</b><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><div class="separator" style="background-color: white; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px; text-align: center;"><a href="https://encrypted-tbn1.google.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcR2HjI6faJbjfUtk9BSZ75_9uLiBfl8D2ULROmHkDV3GYTzJVb5" imageanchor="1" style="color: #2288bb; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-decoration-line: none;"><img border="0" height="194" src="https://encrypted-tbn1.google.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcR2HjI6faJbjfUtk9BSZ75_9uLiBfl8D2ULROmHkDV3GYTzJVb5" style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; background-position: initial; background-repeat: initial; background-size: initial; border: 1px solid rgb(238, 238, 238); box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.1) 1px 1px 5px; padding: 5px; position: relative;" width="259" /></a></div><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><b style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Ingredients</b><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">:</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">• 3 carrots, peeled and cut into thin strips</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">• 2 medium zucchini or 1 large zucchini, cut into thin strips</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">• 2 yellow squash, cut into thin strips</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">• 1 onion, thinly sliced</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">• 1 yellow bell pepper, cut into thin strips</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">• 1 red bell pepper, cut into thin strips</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">• 1/4 cup olive oil</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">• Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">• 1 tablespoon dried Italian herbs or herbes de Provence</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">• 1 pound farfalle (bowtie pasta)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">• 15 cherry tomatoes, halved</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">• 1/2 cup grated Parmesan</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><b style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Directions</b><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">:</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Preheat the oven to 450 degrees F.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">On a large heavy baking sheet, toss all of the vegetables with the oil, salt, pepper, and dried herbs to coat. Transfer half of the vegetable mixture to another heavy large baking sheet and arrange evenly over the baking sheets. Bake until the carrots are tender and the vegetables begin to brown, stirring after the first 10 minutes, about 20 minutes total.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Meanwhile, cook the pasta in a large pot of boiling salted water until al dente, tender but still firm to the bite, about 8 minutes. Drain, reserving 1 cup of the cooking liquid.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Toss the pasta with the vegetable mixtures in a large bowl to combine. Toss with the cherry tomatoesand enough reserved cooking liquid to moisten. Season the pasta with salt and pepper, to taste. Sprinkle with the Parmesan and serve immediately.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">I recommend using a whole wheat pasta cooked according to the directions as it offers a nutty flavor and a strong dose of fiber.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">In addition, I’d offer a multi-grain baguette for a side as well as a delicious tossed salad.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">And, since dinner is so healthful, and it is Easter, I’d serve a sinfully delicious dessert!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Here’s the offering. With Easter Baskets overflowing with cute egg-shaped candies, I thought this would be an adorable and tasty way to serve them!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><b style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Chocolate Easter Egg Nests</b><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3U_8vzxjeXkiRe779DD7cAjHM8lDi3eldvwRhpSS_XGzWZsSD7bqZCgffUQCBjsJeHSOjT1d4HMPjbe7aArdYZGoZWaFxTCNnYkUSedtW9asmZNYJUVzAI_6siYrV4_2yZNvNnYgh7AtxcEedPqciNAAFMz1Nl7fD9GLquEKpeeba9G2x5ILdJlWm7Q/s2048/chocolate%20easter%20egg%20nests.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1638" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3U_8vzxjeXkiRe779DD7cAjHM8lDi3eldvwRhpSS_XGzWZsSD7bqZCgffUQCBjsJeHSOjT1d4HMPjbe7aArdYZGoZWaFxTCNnYkUSedtW9asmZNYJUVzAI_6siYrV4_2yZNvNnYgh7AtxcEedPqciNAAFMz1Nl7fD9GLquEKpeeba9G2x5ILdJlWm7Q/s320/chocolate%20easter%20egg%20nests.jpg" width="256" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="background-color: white; clear: both; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Shredded Wheat or Rice Krispies and melted chocolate make perfect nests for candy coated Easter Eggs and they are quick and easy to make.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Hands-On Time: 20 minutes</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Ready In: 3 hours</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Yield: 8 chocolate nests</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><b style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Ingredients</b><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">:</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">5 large Shredded Wheat (or 2 cups spoon-size)</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">1/3 cup good quality milk chocolate chips</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">1/3 cup good quality bittersweet chocolate chips</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">1/2 stick (1/4 cup) butter</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">3 tablespoons golden syrup, such as Lyle's</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">mini candy coated chocolate eggs</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">OR</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">3 cups Rice Krispies</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">scant 1 cup good quality semisweet chocolate chips</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">3 tablespoons butter</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">2 tablespoons golden syrup, such as Lyle's</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><b style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Directions</b><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">:</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">1. Crush the Shredded Wheat into a bowl with your fingers. Put the chocolate chips into a saucepan together with the butter and golden syrup and melt over a gentle heat.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">2. Line two cookie sheets with parchment paper or aluminum foil. Stir the Shredded Wheat into the chocolate mixture and spoon eight mounds onto the lined cookie sheets, shaping into rounds with a dip in the center.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">3. Chill in the refrigerator for several hours until set, then peel the nests carefully away from the parchment and fill with mini chocolate eggs.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">These can be filled with jelly beans, foil-wrapped eggs, or the decadent Cadbury Mini Eggs I am so wild about. If you are expecting a lot of guests, definitely double or triple the recipe to be sure and have enough.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><br style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13.2px;">Wishing you and yours a very Happy and Healthy Easter/Spring! A very Happy Passover to those celebrating that holiday!</span>Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-29695369506703846342023-02-09T05:48:00.001-05:002023-02-09T05:48:29.056-05:00Celebrate Valentine's Day with Verve!<p> </p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3PlfxicEgJujxMC_ZENvjmZZp9ZKp2BSSjNar3K6TgQJ-kvb0kPOgLFi70mEbn48oS-kfVUeDSbTD6-myTg8L5hR-91PT8tW2cue1lCGVne9fl51TR_erhEhK8cGho4vjExWk5jii6m0pSINxo5bwYPh6cqwMKXJp2NEPdA0pjLdqtFCFAks5Oh6yGA/s679/Valentine%20Heart.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="679" data-original-width="679" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj3PlfxicEgJujxMC_ZENvjmZZp9ZKp2BSSjNar3K6TgQJ-kvb0kPOgLFi70mEbn48oS-kfVUeDSbTD6-myTg8L5hR-91PT8tW2cue1lCGVne9fl51TR_erhEhK8cGho4vjExWk5jii6m0pSINxo5bwYPh6cqwMKXJp2NEPdA0pjLdqtFCFAks5Oh6yGA/s320/Valentine%20Heart.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;"><br /></span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">Steeped in
history, full of positive emotion, and a chance to shake off the winter
doldrums, celebrate Valentine's Day this year with gusto!<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">Decorate
your space, make your Valentine's card/gift list, plan, and shop!<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size: 18pt; line-height: 107%;">Where
should I go to purchase Valentines and Gift?<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">As always, I
recommend the local dollar store to help you stay on budget and still be
generous. My go to is the Dollar Tree. They are nationwide and full of great
ideas, wonderful values, and beautiful cards - Hallmark cards and Handmade cards are still so reasonable!<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFFekNeZHB1Hi69tGW1ggJKCgAGL654DJy7f4fiUi3uAKfTOTFGbdpifOSS2zFypRB4DClvWg58MsXIg9WBHUErcTe6DE-4XUrwk9LeDqvugDlgcht37KMXGNyU69wb_ElUYhH_TNnjHCw9A2C13KdsuvbmDR_piIwwbhB-_OITe-vH0ZqaWjhHANAUQ/s1300/heart%20sealed%20envelopes.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1300" data-original-width="1300" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFFekNeZHB1Hi69tGW1ggJKCgAGL654DJy7f4fiUi3uAKfTOTFGbdpifOSS2zFypRB4DClvWg58MsXIg9WBHUErcTe6DE-4XUrwk9LeDqvugDlgcht37KMXGNyU69wb_ElUYhH_TNnjHCw9A2C13KdsuvbmDR_piIwwbhB-_OITe-vH0ZqaWjhHANAUQ/s320/heart%20sealed%20envelopes.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><br /></span></p>But you can
supplement with some high-end items like live cut flowers from your favorite
florist, homemade chocolates from the neighborhood candy store, lingerie from
the town center boutique, and/or an amazing bauble from your hometown jeweler.</span><p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">These are
merely suggestions. Even if all you can do is construct a card from scraps
found at home, it's a wonderful gesture!<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjoTkqSVYLXSDNxvh2GXA0EWDeKYjcwDbcO1VZyXSjEse43ZSeIgMSVtfPg6w8c7v1D2YGJybfbv4uhihqFJmuwUAKoLafjLIYwltLTZrdl5QNbnkZxVbivpywpUmNW6kLwCVzz_olpglOxodvhco-81G0tDrYGrXVZ06CUlK07_ocD_Dk3tcTZYQaZeA/s1920/Valentine%20making%20kit%201.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1920" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjoTkqSVYLXSDNxvh2GXA0EWDeKYjcwDbcO1VZyXSjEse43ZSeIgMSVtfPg6w8c7v1D2YGJybfbv4uhihqFJmuwUAKoLafjLIYwltLTZrdl5QNbnkZxVbivpywpUmNW6kLwCVzz_olpglOxodvhco-81G0tDrYGrXVZ06CUlK07_ocD_Dk3tcTZYQaZeA/s320/Valentine%20making%20kit%201.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><br /></span></p>Making the
effort to tell your friends, family, and loved ones how you feel about them is
good will that will come back to you tenfold, so start planning now!</span><p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">There are only
a few days until Valentine's Day. Yet, there is more than enough time to make
this one the best yet!</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">Why not take
my advice to heart and ENJOY Valentine’s Day this year?<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">I can help.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size: 18pt; line-height: 107%;">Isn’t
Valentine’s Day just for overly romantic couples?<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">Remember
that Valentine’s Day is for all kinds of love - familial, friend, newly
smitten, long-term, or even loving and honoring yourself. It’s for anyone who
loves love.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">So, plan the
kind of celebration that works for you.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><span style="font-size: 18pt; line-height: 107%;">What kind
of celebration should I have?<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">A cute
Valentine’s Day tea party with stuffed animals in attendance is adorable with
littles in the house.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">A cocktail
party is fun for friends and family. Choose red and
pink beverages (make sure to offer plenty of soft drinks, too).<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">Heart-shaped
pizza party is delightful! Either make your own or purchase from a local
pizzeria that could use your business.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiajMujm-lne6_ndYJLstZMZxCkJ04eku3p9QW1IKFQyvp7v8_qwFnrSOcTu0wJanZZp0z2Sn9PW2LaHG6bKXkTCN3K_n89SWp4GzUauxClwh7wA0oC-t9nrQHa4anOadfC9h9xKMUq88mFUuuVvawxGtg89_RSs64PhiHrpATeskdjiOtdeAAYFLL4AQ/s1800/heart%20shaped%20pizza.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1800" data-original-width="1440" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiajMujm-lne6_ndYJLstZMZxCkJ04eku3p9QW1IKFQyvp7v8_qwFnrSOcTu0wJanZZp0z2Sn9PW2LaHG6bKXkTCN3K_n89SWp4GzUauxClwh7wA0oC-t9nrQHa4anOadfC9h9xKMUq88mFUuuVvawxGtg89_RSs64PhiHrpATeskdjiOtdeAAYFLL4AQ/s320/heart%20shaped%20pizza.jpg" width="256" /></a></div><br /><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;"><br /></span><p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;">Go on a
heart scavenger hunt in your home! You’d be surprised how many things resemble
hearts - like my potato chip! </span><span face=""Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif" style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji";">❤️</span><span style="font-size: 14pt; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjX_rsgsVtlgAPZyzOyN_OUlPn6A7ezKT1eW5Tnyq4IYRvtKPYhZHUSDwHrjTQywNufT7Jig79VHL9C16bA5GC01mqRl2maI8tcCH5DydnkE_A1N_FMpPlgrd_9H3DtDbN_SuV71Lsth_7qY6uvCNmhapkuLOj-4hpEHHI8LXy-iZ_KKZCF2Tw4OLF-Kw/s960/heart%20shaped%20potato%20chip.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="720" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjX_rsgsVtlgAPZyzOyN_OUlPn6A7ezKT1eW5Tnyq4IYRvtKPYhZHUSDwHrjTQywNufT7Jig79VHL9C16bA5GC01mqRl2maI8tcCH5DydnkE_A1N_FMpPlgrd_9H3DtDbN_SuV71Lsth_7qY6uvCNmhapkuLOj-4hpEHHI8LXy-iZ_KKZCF2Tw4OLF-Kw/s320/heart%20shaped%20potato%20chip.jpg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt;">Get some
Valentine’s napkins, a box of conversation hearts, and a plan for February 14th
in some way, you’ll be so glad you did!</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBY8g5RLRY52GrA2gyo1VttCdJnWnAuGe4E-M-T9CJgGM0vewf_DmvtEzEGoykrJa58lPLPrOwZySagXi3YYK6EPKszCqJbG6vSf-NfR-OMR-_RZG6_xbmlDPr5GB41E6ZX7FIBuY51jj8k6fLSLsOlYv-wmZhTSgyTx-jndbT6FfRzEZnxD7kwAO3Ow/s1800/Christmas%20Candi%20heart%20dress.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1800" data-original-width="1440" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiBY8g5RLRY52GrA2gyo1VttCdJnWnAuGe4E-M-T9CJgGM0vewf_DmvtEzEGoykrJa58lPLPrOwZySagXi3YYK6EPKszCqJbG6vSf-NfR-OMR-_RZG6_xbmlDPr5GB41E6ZX7FIBuY51jj8k6fLSLsOlYv-wmZhTSgyTx-jndbT6FfRzEZnxD7kwAO3Ow/s320/Christmas%20Candi%20heart%20dress.jpg" width="256" /></a></div><br /><span style="font-size: 14pt;"><br /></span><p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p>Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-6366072404018822672023-02-05T07:32:00.007-05:002023-02-05T07:32:59.942-05:00Valentine's Day Is For Everyone<p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2jALUGzDLR91TNY5JDtwk2tcgCSfpLY2kdx4YdOS7uOyXFeSZyQRlcLQ4hqDDt3Z_FV5JGhvevImVR7AakiZEEyMyF-YoI02ysz6FA5FSDVT_F9cBWMKrsOV0LFJNGat5KIIw7gyUDS8HtIYaeN8piePb_xCL9XbvUbVsIuD9E35vAOFdDiy69Y5rcw/s1280/valentines-day.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="720" data-original-width="1280" height="180" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2jALUGzDLR91TNY5JDtwk2tcgCSfpLY2kdx4YdOS7uOyXFeSZyQRlcLQ4hqDDt3Z_FV5JGhvevImVR7AakiZEEyMyF-YoI02ysz6FA5FSDVT_F9cBWMKrsOV0LFJNGat5KIIw7gyUDS8HtIYaeN8piePb_xCL9XbvUbVsIuD9E35vAOFdDiy69Y5rcw/s320/valentines-day.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span><p></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;">Valentine's
Day is on Tuesday, February 14th. It’s nearly impossible not to notice as stores
have been decorated and selling merchandise for this day since the day after
Christmas. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;">Florists,
confectioners, and jewelers are waiting to sell lovers a token of affection to
give their significant others. And, of course, card stores and the United
States Post Office are gearing up for the holiday as </span><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;">Valentine's
Day remains America's second-most-popular card-sending holiday, behind
Christmas.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="background: white; color: #222222; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfjHvsMPCEOSmFpZX0UcTKpWyNCaw0k5mqM7eXjAG9XsH9UUeI6Z4hLlD49ErOsO-4Fe9b1cKKXWa-v1Zd4P1Qi3FdkBImomRI_AMZQ1kah3ejBofDonBnR4VgN7M3sOH47nyv02BcqA5zoEa2GONYf_PJFb0derhUx2F_3cD7-I7kphj_zhgSte8TgQ/s594/Valentine%20Card.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="298" data-original-width="594" height="161" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfjHvsMPCEOSmFpZX0UcTKpWyNCaw0k5mqM7eXjAG9XsH9UUeI6Z4hLlD49ErOsO-4Fe9b1cKKXWa-v1Zd4P1Qi3FdkBImomRI_AMZQ1kah3ejBofDonBnR4VgN7M3sOH47nyv02BcqA5zoEa2GONYf_PJFb0derhUx2F_3cD7-I7kphj_zhgSte8TgQ/s320/Valentine%20Card.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p></p>
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people sighed while reading. This beautiful holiday has lost its meaning for
many. <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;">Contrary
to pessimistic belief, it is NOT a Hallmark-made-up holiday. It is steeped in
rich history and is a lovely day to tell those you love, you LOVE them. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;">Since
the time of the ancient Romans, a mid-February celebration was observed. In
addition, there was really a Christian bishop name Valentine who wed young
Roman couples at a time when Emperor Claudius II had outlawed marriage.
Claudius II found out and had Valentine jailed and sentenced to death. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmAjBqYd8wRO0e5ki9b4f0ZrtgShAOZ1hOVQGRg_LZFYy2JKnzhhpeO_OpxC686Z5VFQ6_5madZcEOplonrH0AdVbYYdYjxJA0EFI0Qt7hkLC2V1U6S7ZNswrLCD11CZ6g8ep9GPXwvY7ceESKfkh8DF0gIkcXRgZyxBhXoIeGIzrUP54doZqUwEbbRw/s258/st%20valentine.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="195" data-original-width="258" height="195" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmAjBqYd8wRO0e5ki9b4f0ZrtgShAOZ1hOVQGRg_LZFYy2JKnzhhpeO_OpxC686Z5VFQ6_5madZcEOplonrH0AdVbYYdYjxJA0EFI0Qt7hkLC2V1U6S7ZNswrLCD11CZ6g8ep9GPXwvY7ceESKfkh8DF0gIkcXRgZyxBhXoIeGIzrUP54doZqUwEbbRw/s1600/st%20valentine.jpg" width="258" /></a></div><br /><p></p>
<p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;">Valentine
was himself in love with a woman and, from his jail cell, penned a final love letter to her signed, “From your Valentine”. Although Valentine was put to death, his
story has stood the test of time and with it a legacy of declaring one’s love
unabashedly.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span></p>
<p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 4.5pt;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;">Valentine’s
Day is NOT just a romantic holiday, but a day to tell ALL of those you love you
do so. So, send a Valentine to a parent, a sibling, a dear friend, your crush,
your spouse, your child's teacher who he/she loves, and anyone and everyone
else.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 4.5pt;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 4.5pt;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgO6awRy7pW8f7KDAeVXbMUA3uqqMldDT56nHr1NVRYzGjUaC3X96BAn6w0CdIj8FWdxD-VaG-ClVnqllh0z7S7KgJIcKHmtZ8VnwsjYGftqxtMiPNcGglHqoRFIPi4SqiZloumZ5bjiNs_w5OB1QqjpxH8tTU60D-b3fctvRbfDxoRjDd2JkA09QCCTg/s1200/love.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="800" data-original-width="1200" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgO6awRy7pW8f7KDAeVXbMUA3uqqMldDT56nHr1NVRYzGjUaC3X96BAn6w0CdIj8FWdxD-VaG-ClVnqllh0z7S7KgJIcKHmtZ8VnwsjYGftqxtMiPNcGglHqoRFIPi4SqiZloumZ5bjiNs_w5OB1QqjpxH8tTU60D-b3fctvRbfDxoRjDd2JkA09QCCTg/s320/love.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p></p>
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is far too much unkindness in this worl<span class="textexposedshow">d. The news
is full of BAD news. Let's turn the tide - let's spread LOVE!</span><o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 4.5pt;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><span class="textexposedshow"><br /></span></span></p>
<p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;">Make
a card, buy a card, pick up a bouquet of flowers, a heart-shaped box of
chocolates, yes, a piece of jewelry, or simply tell everyone you know
"Happy Valentine's Day"! It can be as simple or elaborate as you care
to be or have the means to be. No stress, just LOVE.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span></p>
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parents have been married 60 years on this Valentine's Day, the day they
ELOPED.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 4.5pt;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 4.5pt;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-r0MUnuVOiyEjLInPzn2a9O7jL6dd6ZjxJOKiz-R9cRDOMnnnRsQpKXooA7AkMfc2F5iUQGs8CQYQF9ud51F58Bs5whRwcNYZWMXOEcrroFpp7O0FepmbLfA34znz6NyRz9g9xagtHWvgsDCEO6g97cZkTV4-Shrqr7vY99-6OijyOLzzRCPs4jRUlQ/s810/Mom%20and%20Dad%20Aibel.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="540" data-original-width="810" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-r0MUnuVOiyEjLInPzn2a9O7jL6dd6ZjxJOKiz-R9cRDOMnnnRsQpKXooA7AkMfc2F5iUQGs8CQYQF9ud51F58Bs5whRwcNYZWMXOEcrroFpp7O0FepmbLfA34znz6NyRz9g9xagtHWvgsDCEO6g97cZkTV4-Shrqr7vY99-6OijyOLzzRCPs4jRUlQ/s320/Mom%20and%20Dad%20Aibel.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 4.5pt;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: Arial, sans-serif;"><br /></span></p>Valentine's
Day has been celebrated in my home since I was a child and my children know the
joys of a wondrous Valentine's Season (Yes, SEASON) and a fun-filled,
love-filled Valentine's Day.</span><p></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 4.5pt;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span></p>
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your heart-shaped pizzas from your local pizzeria. Take the time to
profess your love this February 14<sup>th</sup> like Valentine did. Take every
opportunity to celebrate Valentine’s Day with love and passion.</span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 4.5pt;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span></p>
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implore you, spread the LOVE this Valentine's Day and you'll get it back
tenfold.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 4.5pt;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 4.5pt;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaNI-hNnUGzcbFG1rK3SfY-PTTJvupvCP5XgaHx5Kptj68asvTzGrALKNzlPxawHbrbjWOO0rW-5UZJpH_Tm4BcUL3e0niEewj48qDreHa6DKQsxFuPIIxy1vQmmEceGejTHIMzDnzHQsFjgDAGcTPhmfxJZ4WSblQIdh6YGkXCo78j0LQ0-RSlMMYoQ/s2048/Candi%20and%20Ryan%20Dec%2024%2020222.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaNI-hNnUGzcbFG1rK3SfY-PTTJvupvCP5XgaHx5Kptj68asvTzGrALKNzlPxawHbrbjWOO0rW-5UZJpH_Tm4BcUL3e0niEewj48qDreHa6DKQsxFuPIIxy1vQmmEceGejTHIMzDnzHQsFjgDAGcTPhmfxJZ4WSblQIdh6YGkXCo78j0LQ0-RSlMMYoQ/s320/Candi%20and%20Ryan%20Dec%2024%2020222.jpg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span><p></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 4.5pt;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span></p><p style="background: white; margin-bottom: 4.5pt; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 4.5pt;"><span style="color: #1d2129; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif;"><br /></span></p>
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<br />Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-52945871213080202012023-01-07T08:30:00.000-05:002023-01-07T08:30:29.776-05:00Thirty Years<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyZMRkFBOdjntBM8Vf_PbJiIAz8qOlIhtitf1ScZYPKNQCFvrUd_p8vCeV-Pz1nwP-BGOV9uvPhcf9zrvHdZ5qjjsyzTkMNgM6BWq-niKdIqiYTj09dRqSP7WpVMZ-rreOVZd0_XujPUzxYB8KIJ79UenwmGhHSegZF-rel97Gllbn3r4ko25BRgCtQw/s1824/wedding.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1824" data-original-width="1459" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiyZMRkFBOdjntBM8Vf_PbJiIAz8qOlIhtitf1ScZYPKNQCFvrUd_p8vCeV-Pz1nwP-BGOV9uvPhcf9zrvHdZ5qjjsyzTkMNgM6BWq-niKdIqiYTj09dRqSP7WpVMZ-rreOVZd0_XujPUzxYB8KIJ79UenwmGhHSegZF-rel97Gllbn3r4ko25BRgCtQw/s320/wedding.jpg" width="256" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">January 9, 1993</td></tr></tbody></table><br /><p><br /></p><p>On January 9, 1993, at 20 years old, I said “I do,” to the
man I had been in love for six years. He was 23. We were young, naïve,
inexperienced, and a bit crazy, but we knew our hearts. We wanted to embark on
our married life together.</p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Thirty years have passed in the blink of an eye. Thirty
years that produced three wonderful children. There were endless diaper
changes, countless tears, temper tantrums, health scares, life-altering
decisions, and love.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Always love.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">During these thirty years I’ve acquired wisdom. Although far
from “perfect”, we are still happily married. We have faced proverbial Giants,
Dragons, and Pandemics and we are still together. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We’ve had doubts, droughts, floods, disappointments,
setbacks, and famine, yet we always loved one another. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Always.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Raising children has been richly rewarding and God’s
greatest blessing on us. Yet, children are depleting to a romantic
relationship. We had to learn to navigate Parenthood without sacrificing Couplehood.
<o:p></o:p></p><br /><br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6qTbSks_658lj-XbBXPewCg6U_UBO2TAjEY2Z2k2vrqj-6HQn8Ce32lQ9WujMyeN1orkb2Urj7yZdPJt-tk4FZeW7LFnAoT6mbo7TY2O3PcueKFgVNLPydG4RwiOKMtnrGYx2SFVp5a2RSuDOdnFCr3VtA70CB-Lp4BUFdmnjdLfZOkpFsXl6jbDoPw/s2048/Matt%20Rosie%20Greg%20Dec%2024%202022.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6qTbSks_658lj-XbBXPewCg6U_UBO2TAjEY2Z2k2vrqj-6HQn8Ce32lQ9WujMyeN1orkb2Urj7yZdPJt-tk4FZeW7LFnAoT6mbo7TY2O3PcueKFgVNLPydG4RwiOKMtnrGYx2SFVp5a2RSuDOdnFCr3VtA70CB-Lp4BUFdmnjdLfZOkpFsXl6jbDoPw/s320/Matt%20Rosie%20Greg%20Dec%2024%202022.jpg" width="240" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Our three children<br />December 24, 2022</td></tr></tbody></table><p class="MsoNormal"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We chose love.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Always. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We don’t always agree and at times have grown apart. Then,
because we love – and like – one another, we find our way back. We choose to
stay in love – and together.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Always. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I offer some wisdom to share. Take what works for you.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We are Human. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We are fallible, but we choose love.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Always.<o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal">Thirty Years of Married Wisdom</p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Put the Couple first, above children, above
self. The Couple is sacred.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Be an individual. To bring the best to the
couple you must live your life. Experience, explore, create, interact. Every
day you will have something new to share with your spouse. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Find time for intimacy throughout the days, weeks,
months, and years. Intimacy is not solely sex. It’s emotional, it’s physical.
It’s trust, comfort, and relaxation with your spouse. Without intimacy, sex is
not fulfilling to the Couple. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Make time for sex. Intimate sex. Passionate sex.
Quick sex. There should always be time for sex.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Learn that it’s okay to not have sex when you
are in pain, exhausted, sick, or not mentally into it. But when these excuses
are constant, seek help professionally. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">6.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Go to the doctor regularly to stay healthy.
Dentist and eye doctors, too. Stay in peak physical condition. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">7.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Exercise regularly. Take care of your body and
heart and they will take care of you. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">8.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Seek professional therapy – marriage and
individual if necessary. Learn to communicate better, love yourself more, and
strengthen your marriage. Win-Win.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">9.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Speak about your spouse in glowing terms around
everyone you speak. Never demean your spouse in public. Never air your “dirty
laundry”. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">10.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Let your spouse overhear you praise him/her.
Often.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">11.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Talk about problems with your spouse before they
fester.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">12.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Decide who oversees paying the bills. Both partners
should be aware of the home budget and financial goals and live accordingly.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">13.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Chores should be fairly distributed. Only you and
your spouse can determine what is “fair”. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">14.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Hold hands.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">15.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Sit together.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">16.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Have Date Nights. Or Date Days. Or Date
Mornings. They needn’t cost money, it’s about spending time together and making
one another the priority.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">17.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Learn to compromise. In a Couple, one person isn’t
always going to get their way. It’s not 50/50 that makes a couple survive, it’s
100/100.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">18.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Learn to have a sense of humor about Life. Life
is stressful and dark at times, but laughter can brighten dark times.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">19.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Honor your Couple milestones. Wedding
anniversaries should be observed with reverence and celebration. EVERY YEAR.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">20.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Do things apart. If one of you enjoys something
the other does not, spend time apart so the individuals in the Couple can enjoy
their recreational time.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">21.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Do things together. Find a few things to do
together that bring you both joy and enhance the Couple. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">22.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Be kind to your spouse’s parents/family. If you
love your spouse, it makes sense to love – or like – his/her family. There are
always extreme exceptions, but overall, it doesn’t hurt to be kind, friendly,
and loving.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">23.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Fighting is part of marriage. When you stop
communicating, it’s over. But fighting should have a time when you each listen
to one another and figure out what’s going on, and there should be a
resolution.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">24.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Sing together. There should be at least a few songs
you both enjoy. Belt them out in the car, in the shower, or whenever it makes
you happy.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">25.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Be patient. We all learn Life’s lessons at
different paces. Allow your spouse time to navigate Life. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">26.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Compliment one another. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">27.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Complement one another.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">28.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Bring one another coffee, tea, water, seltzer…
Small acts of kindness are vitally important.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">29.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Reminisce about how your fell in love, your
wedding, and other early romantic milestones often. These keep the Couple aware
of their powerful connection. Continue to make new romantic milestones that
keep the marriage enduring.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-left: 20.25pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">30.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">
</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Kiss, always.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">There are so many other nuggets of wisdom, but these made my
top list. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">As our 30<sup>th</sup> Anniversary is upon us, I am most
thankful our marriage has endured. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I’m thankful for all the help we’ve gotten to get to this point.
Help from our parents and families, from our children and our friends. We also
have had tremendous help from two therapists, two 12-Step Programs, and a
stubborn belief that we belong together. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We are better together. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We love each other.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Always.<o:p></o:p></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgESbpAEgB_Cew6O4Mri2jrUP2PBiGX6aq4nlKvOrn3u9QIkCV_MWDiqtZk3VXsJesNI9orsyWA_8EXpnahKdFUHUdORZa-SAT_IBaxjn96zcqp6wrTjFJedblZaSewNZ4LX-WtSX7IJkl8nW8YNWpTQnMCFZPlO3Fxi3V4H7a5kJ-2kQuBpbHRSa1YIg/s2048/Candi%20and%20Ryan%20Dec%2024%2020222.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgESbpAEgB_Cew6O4Mri2jrUP2PBiGX6aq4nlKvOrn3u9QIkCV_MWDiqtZk3VXsJesNI9orsyWA_8EXpnahKdFUHUdORZa-SAT_IBaxjn96zcqp6wrTjFJedblZaSewNZ4LX-WtSX7IJkl8nW8YNWpTQnMCFZPlO3Fxi3V4H7a5kJ-2kQuBpbHRSa1YIg/s320/Candi%20and%20Ryan%20Dec%2024%2020222.jpg" width="240" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">December 24, 2022</td></tr></tbody></table><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p>Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-28517570403731147982022-12-29T08:35:00.000-05:002022-12-29T08:35:41.536-05:00New Year's Eve 2023<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXgg97zJXNQ9NPqW0EYvee-9neEKomMqaT6X8OWaVOHXl0zMv1ZeCLby8oOErC0ytxauFRzuW-dF4m17E1MsGrDcjB1nDIrQxqD0HkY2_ZlyKm730yBMs4X9jm_xbxskzrbm36Z3J1Ucs-ZC0gmAyoPgTFG7ClFjCXCoFGGFWMtp8q37_5St902fozqA/s870/NYE%202023.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="524" data-original-width="870" height="220" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXgg97zJXNQ9NPqW0EYvee-9neEKomMqaT6X8OWaVOHXl0zMv1ZeCLby8oOErC0ytxauFRzuW-dF4m17E1MsGrDcjB1nDIrQxqD0HkY2_ZlyKm730yBMs4X9jm_xbxskzrbm36Z3J1Ucs-ZC0gmAyoPgTFG7ClFjCXCoFGGFWMtp8q37_5St902fozqA/w455-h220/NYE%202023.jpg" width="455" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p>New Year’s Eve is like the Rock Star of the Holidays! It is
full of glitz and glamour, music and partying, and a huge kiss-worthy
celebration at midnight.</p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Or it’s not.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">For every person who parties like the former, there are
scores of people who refuse. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">New Year’s Eve is also a wonderful evening to spend safely
tucked in at home. You can have a small get-together if you like, it’s fun to
share the holiday with friends and neighbors, family and loved ones as you ring
in a new year.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Foods can range from leftovers from Christmas week to
appetizers and desserts since no one cares about a sit-down dinner on December
31<sup>st</sup>.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">But even if you hold up at home, alone, and want to honor
this change of calendar,
there is much to do if you care to participate.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">If you have children who are too young to make it to
midnight (or you yourself are), find celebrations in other parts of the world
where it has turned midnight and 2023 has already arrived. Australia, Egypt, Germany,
or anywhere that is in a time zone before ours. It’s an educational research
project that can expand to HOW that country celebrates – traditions they
observe, foods they eat, etc. – and allows for broadening of one’s horizons
without leaving home. Plus, by celebrating before midnight comes here, you get
to go to bed at a “decent” hour. Sounds like a Win Win! <o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJMFamqpfAG9N4ngvJs7PkdGx4aE3eIXjgB_ofTEXVRsdyZBR01rpo-E8OEKDRGver-G0iK7CNk9g6EJkXL5DeHFgGxJyW6uHkIyDtU__--IK8Qfchn1iuAtbweZ8JEkEyAkcZFMBnPkkzJomgEWSb27XG7TX5PieeXRn3b-u_WzfvWbVWKmNnJJ30Jw/s287/Time%20Capsule.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="175" data-original-width="287" height="175" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJMFamqpfAG9N4ngvJs7PkdGx4aE3eIXjgB_ofTEXVRsdyZBR01rpo-E8OEKDRGver-G0iK7CNk9g6EJkXL5DeHFgGxJyW6uHkIyDtU__--IK8Qfchn1iuAtbweZ8JEkEyAkcZFMBnPkkzJomgEWSb27XG7TX5PieeXRn3b-u_WzfvWbVWKmNnJJ30Jw/s1600/Time%20Capsule.jpg" width="287" /></a></div><p class="MsoNormal">With the end of a year, it is a great time to create a Time
Capsule. Find a container that you don’t mind storing in your home that will be
off limits for a few years or up to a decade. Fill it with a newspaper from
December 31, 2022, and other ‘artifacts’ that are indicative of the times we’ve just lived. I don’t recommend putting in the latest iPhone, but you could
throw in a defunct iPhone IV, other tech that doesn’t work but once did, and
other items that show what was popular (posters, magazines, greeting cards),
useful, and a part of YOUR life or that of your family’s. It’s a cool process
to assemble a Time Capsule, and even more exciting to open it in the future.
Just make sure you remember where you place it, so it doesn’t get lost forever.</p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjl2WpNwgBORNyKrEPWG0zmfV8bCS3d1xU9LrRqDtBS-nyVQMtq4WHTSt3rSTxHNJncmbJXB_59d0JE847QpJ1VNXd8S7G6OmZsdanmA5INOyGyOcWPTBB_P10XOIY_k-071BTzeqwMGwAxr-sFsHE3BXJp5N-VRIOTx1yj3j_Nt046lJNGGwqja0RZXw/s1600/Dear%20Me%20Letter.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1093" data-original-width="1600" height="219" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjl2WpNwgBORNyKrEPWG0zmfV8bCS3d1xU9LrRqDtBS-nyVQMtq4WHTSt3rSTxHNJncmbJXB_59d0JE847QpJ1VNXd8S7G6OmZsdanmA5INOyGyOcWPTBB_P10XOIY_k-071BTzeqwMGwAxr-sFsHE3BXJp5N-VRIOTx1yj3j_Nt046lJNGGwqja0RZXw/s320/Dear%20Me%20Letter.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><p class="MsoNormal">Another way to honor the end of the year is to write a
letter to your future self. It could start, “Dear Me in 2033”. You can include
information of who you are now but can also encapsulate the hopes and dreams
you have for your future. No one is too old for this project as having goals,
hopes, and dreams keep us all motivated. The letter should be completely
private, so you are totally honest with yourself. Let your mind wander and tap
its most cherished dreams. Then, write it down so you can start working towards
it. Powerful.</p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">As for New Year’s Resolutions, I’m not a big fan. I know
that most get forgotten by January 13, never to be tackled again until December
31<sup>st</sup> when people think of the same hateful things – 1. Lose weight
2. Become a millionaire 3. Marry a millionaire…<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>And so on. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Perhaps you need to honor yourself in a different way. It
needn’t be written down, but it can be. Forgive yourself. Yes, as a new year dawns, go into it free of self-loathing. Instead of telling yourself
to Lose Weight, simply tell yourself to look in the mirror and love yourself.
Then, make a small decision that you can manage like, walk 10 minutes more per
day. That’s it, just walk. By the end of January, you’ll be feeling more
energetic and want to add more time to that. You’ll start making better food
choices – no food after 7p, especially junk food. Or, add an apple or veggies to
meal.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Baby steps, lifestyle changes, nothing drastic that leaves
one feeling deprived. It’s about feeling better about yourself NOW, not when
you lose 30 pounds. Love who you are, forgive yourself the trespasses you feel
you’ve done, and start 2023 with a renewed passion for YOU. Be kinder to
yourself, be kinder to others, be accepting, and soon, your disposition will
change for the better. Now that’s a New Year’s Resolution you can stick to!<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Are you saddened that New Year’s Day means the end of the
Christmas holidays? Do you abhor taking the Christmas tree down, undecorating
your home, and having the absence of light?<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Here are some recommendations. First, make undecorating the
tree as festive as decorating it! Call some people up who you actually like to
come over and help with this tedious chore. Offer beer and pizza, Chinese
take-out and wine, or simply Christmas cookies and hot cocoa. They’ll
appreciate getting out of their house, and with your task, many hands make for
light work, and then you are left with the chore finished. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Let’s tackle the absence of (artificial) light. If you love
the home decorated with lights, leave some up! Or, buy some now with the deep
discounts at the stores (already 70% off or more in many locations) and put
some up in your living room, dining room, bedroom, or kitchen. It’s YOUR HOME,
decorate it the way you want. <o:p></o:p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9TljyXpKrzrNy4CJ78IZq30HrANiaJhgDzdnl6yb7wvHl9ONusDS1nPtGssDvhuEu03VWOkYBs9h6ik-f7ov7_zDlSJxzLxpw4W66R5Tk2aJxN6r9L2kAF9EmkutBt4m2Kvn34-qyK46tOvJu6IzdBZG4BMC4ZcRNl91iyev7sIABdqt2htcJMSolMQ/s679/Valentine%20Heart.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="679" data-original-width="679" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9TljyXpKrzrNy4CJ78IZq30HrANiaJhgDzdnl6yb7wvHl9ONusDS1nPtGssDvhuEu03VWOkYBs9h6ik-f7ov7_zDlSJxzLxpw4W66R5Tk2aJxN6r9L2kAF9EmkutBt4m2Kvn34-qyK46tOvJu6IzdBZG4BMC4ZcRNl91iyev7sIABdqt2htcJMSolMQ/s320/Valentine%20Heart.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal">Create a winter scene post-Christmas with snowflake
ornaments and white twinkling lights. For Valentine’s Day, put up heart
ornaments and red lights. The possibilities are endless and will help brighten
the dark winter that lay ahead.</p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">The New Year’s celebrations are waiting to be had; however,
you want to observe them. And, although Christmas is ending for 2022, it is
never over. Christmas is a year-round season and feeling if you allow it to be.
<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Wishing you all a very Happy New Year 2023 and best to you
all year long!<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-78532476046752055662022-12-18T05:00:00.005-05:002022-12-18T05:00:00.185-05:00Angels <p><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiO3x6vzsEnhr8NaGby7CkILDX51zLfdrs55pv9J24MqW__WAqzI8rrsbitOQxzAnaeVpj-6GQ26-G9xkzyrvC-Rh-Z7c3v4u5gSkmpiIXY0XGTrti5jO_bCFjObnFWBjVPElfS-1dgXXmaRlfDMe21FB8k1D78-pOFp0UwU3SknglMrgwkNVte2ckFBQ/s750/Pexels%20Christmas%20Angel%20with%20heart.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="750" data-original-width="500" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiO3x6vzsEnhr8NaGby7CkILDX51zLfdrs55pv9J24MqW__WAqzI8rrsbitOQxzAnaeVpj-6GQ26-G9xkzyrvC-Rh-Z7c3v4u5gSkmpiIXY0XGTrti5jO_bCFjObnFWBjVPElfS-1dgXXmaRlfDMe21FB8k1D78-pOFp0UwU3SknglMrgwkNVte2ckFBQ/s320/Pexels%20Christmas%20Angel%20with%20heart.jpeg" width="213" /></a></div><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal">As 2022 comes to a close in a couple short weeks, we take
time to reflect on what a year it was, what we learned, and how we want to
proceed into 2023. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">As the Christmas holiday is upon us next week, we find we
have been surrounding ourselves with favorite things. Nutcrackers, toy trains,
snowmen, and various other symbols of the season adorn our homes, our Christmas
trees, and ease our mind. They are powerful reminders of happier times, family,
celebration, and togetherness.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">These symbols have the power to make the world a better
place.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">How?<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Let’s explore.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Angels. Surround yourself with Angels.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Many - most? - cultures and religions agree that Angels
exist. They are a common thread in our shared Humanity.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">There is something comforting about the presence of Angels
in our lives.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We are not alone.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I’ll say it again...<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We are not alone.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">In a time when people are questioning their beliefs and
faith, it’s vital to understand that we are surrounded by Angels.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">A line from Miracle on 34th Street,<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“Faith is believing in things when common sense tells you
not to.”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_Kmy4b_P86LX3Zk31svr0jOv8TMuKeO0rEZNmGwLEUq0gx5_sU-bjIOmCmfwiAelqxfC8QA59HhhYnXh4wafKRZnz_DAd_7QNuJS8mBg_xAFNrvAtALwwNjhy0QJvkDXGC-mSr_39hHDAfckeK6EiXuYr--jw58jc9U0jK9MqLBI8iEmdkc7kEFV5OQ/s750/Pexels%20Santa%20Claus.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="750" data-original-width="500" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg_Kmy4b_P86LX3Zk31svr0jOv8TMuKeO0rEZNmGwLEUq0gx5_sU-bjIOmCmfwiAelqxfC8QA59HhhYnXh4wafKRZnz_DAd_7QNuJS8mBg_xAFNrvAtALwwNjhy0QJvkDXGC-mSr_39hHDAfckeK6EiXuYr--jw58jc9U0jK9MqLBI8iEmdkc7kEFV5OQ/s320/Pexels%20Santa%20Claus.jpeg" width="213" /></a></div><br /><p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I believe.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I believe in Santa Claus, an Angel in my life.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">And I surely believe in Angels.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">If you are struggling with your faith in your religion, the
government, Humanity, or God, talk to someone. It’s not easy but necessary. You
are worth the effort.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><i>Look for the Angels, they surround us daily. They
volunteer, they wear uniforms, they smile brightly, hold our hands when we are
scared or sad. They speak words of comfort and peace.<o:p></o:p></i></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Angels are people. People are Angels.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I surround myself with Angels - year-round - and try to
mirror what I can.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Surround yourself with Angels. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Be one.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><i>The world can be and IS a better place if we just
believe.<o:p></o:p></i></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Santa Claus. Believe in Santa Claus. <span style="font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji",sans-serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Emoji";">🎅🏻</span><o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">That’s right, Believe.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I understand for many that belief ended years even decades
ago, but it’s time to reevaluate.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Santa Claus has been around for over 1700 years. His
importance and presence have waxed and waned in many cultures over the
centuries, but he has survived and thrived and still has a vital and powerful
role in society.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">As stated in Miracle on 34th Street (I’m quoting this
again),<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“Faith is believing in things when common sense tells you
not to.”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I believe. Maybe you can again. Here are some reasons why
believing in Santa Claus is not only great but helpful:<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Santa Claus is omniscient (all-knowing) and omnipotent
(all-powerful) and uses his knowledge and power for GOOD. That’s incredible in
any era, but a beautiful and important fact for this 21st Century year of 2022.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><b><i>Santa Claus is SELFLESS. He acts FOR OTHERS. He is a
model for human decency, charity, and compassion.<o:p></o:p></i></b></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Santa Claus is LOVING and CARING. He may keep a “Naughty
List” but when it comes down to it, he gives children myriad opportunities to
change for the better. He’s patient, wise, forgiving, and kind to a fault. He
wants us to succeed. He wants us to thrive. He wants to spoil us. He has faith
we will mend our ways and behave for goodness’ sake.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Santa Claus’ Generosity of Spirit knows no bounds. He wants
to make our Christmas wishes come true. In addition, he wants us to help make
others Christmas wishes come true. He hopes we work in tandem with him to
provide children whose families can’t to have a Merry Christmas. He prays we
follow in his actions to provide for those in our communities who can’t.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">If we all believed in Santa Claus fervently, perhaps our
communities - our shared Humanity - would be thriving, too.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I believe. Won’t you please join me in believing in Santa
Claus, too?<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Be the one you long to have in your life. Emulate the ideal
and the ripple effects will be powerful resulting in like behaviors.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">After our Christmas/Holiday symbols are safely tucked away
in storage until next year, let’s remember the positive effects they have when
we allow them to work through us. Truly our wishes of “Merry Christmas” and “Happy
Holidays” will reverberate the entire year through if we keep the message in
our hearts and not stowed away with the decorations.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-13473741988501993652022-07-26T16:09:00.002-04:002022-07-26T16:09:39.136-04:00How Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward Saved Me By: Candice Smith<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfyYI21htD2faoK66BXxRPl6OktQEdNU82AzfDpZXW5FmAN2Hb6nhk9YLoN-SW2eWjAIZWKlnu6BvQByc66o1QNp2ZEFcbFF57M6nou0SQCdaH-raKTKJOtpLb1t9iJuGYUAy2XdRb3Bzf1WZDHA2Cl_5DtHNTaPUibmFQChEeEoJb16oh6FKIgtnEkg/s2550/The-Last-Movie-Stars.webp" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1428" data-original-width="2550" height="179" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfyYI21htD2faoK66BXxRPl6OktQEdNU82AzfDpZXW5FmAN2Hb6nhk9YLoN-SW2eWjAIZWKlnu6BvQByc66o1QNp2ZEFcbFF57M6nou0SQCdaH-raKTKJOtpLb1t9iJuGYUAy2XdRb3Bzf1WZDHA2Cl_5DtHNTaPUibmFQChEeEoJb16oh6FKIgtnEkg/s320/The-Last-Movie-Stars.webp" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p class="MsoNormal">Recently I took the six hours needed to watch Ethan Hawke’s
documentary called <b><i>The Last Movie Stars</i></b> (HBO Max) and was blown
away.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">If you don’t know who Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward were
and are, then research needs to occur before reading this piece any further.
For the rest of us, these two were a part of the fabric of my American
upbringing. I knew their movies, I knew their love story, I knew their
politics, his racing, her theater, and their philanthropy. I thought.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Watching this comprehensive documentary with their words,
their children, and their images completely transformed how I looked at them as
individuals, as a couple, and, more importantly to me, how I looked at myself.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Like many in the world, my first world, I suffer. I suffer
with self-esteem issues. I suffer from mental issues. I suffer from the
post-COVID world. I suffer from having teenagers. I suffer from anything and
everything and nothing at all.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Watching Newman and Woodward on my television for six hours
brought a profound understanding, a clarity that I had heretofore never
experienced in my life. Ever. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">They were enraptured with one another when they met. Their
passion ebbed and flowed but never disappeared.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">They were equally impressed with one another’s talent, perhaps
more he than her. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">She sacrificed to raise a family, his and theirs. She did it
brilliantly if not perfectly, but it wasn’t the path she would choose again perhaps.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">He was an alcoholic. She stayed despite the pain,
uncertainty, and boorishness it brought.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">He took up racing at 47 years of age. She rooted him on race
after race.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">They were a couple, a team, a family. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">And, yet they were pulled together and apart like any
marriage.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">They continued to reinvent themselves. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">They continued to make mistakes. The same mistakes.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">They loved, hard.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">They shared tragedy.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">They shared joy.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">They shared recipes with America and made millions for charity
when no one else was doing this. Is ANYONE doing it even now besides them?<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">And while watching and learning and gleaning and sitting
transfixed, I couldn’t help feeling good about myself.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Good about my marriage.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Good about my future.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You see, I’m nothing like them, and I’m everything like
them.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">My marriage is happy and joyful and flawed and terrible.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">My desire to reinvent myself shows promise and then winds
back onto itself to normalcy.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Creatures of habit.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">My world has been dark of late. Problems that will remain
unnamed yet are real and heavy and robbers of joy.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">They affect my marriage, my family life, my serenity.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">But, by seeing that Newman and Woodward had problems, too, I
see a different perspective. That they suffered and endured. They reveled in
one another and persevered, I am able to feel an optimism that has escaped me
for far too long.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Perhaps I’d held myself, my husband, our marriage, and our family
to far too high a standard.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We’re doing pretty great, thanks.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Oh, we still have problems, we’ll still fight, and we’ll be
grumpy, scared, and over it, but we’ll never quit.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">See, we love each other.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We’re imperfectly perfect for one another.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We love our children, our home, our lives, and each other.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">And, if two crazy movie stars can muddle their way through
life and keep a marriage together for 50 years, there’s no telling what two
regular people like my husband and I can do – we’re nearly through the first
thirty years!<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">So, thank you Ethan Hawke for saying yes to the project and
putting a human light on two of Hollywood’s biggest deities.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Thank you, Newman children, for opening up about your parents,
their story through your eyes, and for letting us know how much you loved your
flawed parents.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">And, thank you Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward, for doing
your thing for all of those decades. Right or wrong, good or bad, love or hate,
drunk or sober, knowledgeable or ignorant, you provided one type of roadmap for
this lady to consult when she’s feeling lost.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Lost I felt – and will feel again, no doubt – but this
documentary about your lives makes me feel that whatever Life throws my way, I
can navigate it with my husband by my side.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Thanks.<o:p></o:p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIvn6s-Hd1QnXppeTiz8c17-jhPCOIqxi3lMBRmsWS1U5s9uijXbFMPyHum5wZhEWHgjeb2k-Hs5wGnWQY6oc-8IWPb_VFN3Y8rLtJZ1iHyQSl1Llq2zHOuAI9WYOOj_HBPlBCLoElhg8aznHqFPTEwrsBraa3tHLu7Xd4ooyEKlQmh1TylJ6YnJxakA/s960/Racer%20And%20Chief%20187%208%209%202015.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="720" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIvn6s-Hd1QnXppeTiz8c17-jhPCOIqxi3lMBRmsWS1U5s9uijXbFMPyHum5wZhEWHgjeb2k-Hs5wGnWQY6oc-8IWPb_VFN3Y8rLtJZ1iHyQSl1Llq2zHOuAI9WYOOj_HBPlBCLoElhg8aznHqFPTEwrsBraa3tHLu7Xd4ooyEKlQmh1TylJ6YnJxakA/s320/Racer%20And%20Chief%20187%208%209%202015.jpg" width="240" /></a></div><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-66898422876514945112021-02-18T06:28:00.004-05:002021-02-18T06:28:51.730-05:00And Still We Remember By: Candice Smith<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi53YyMKGznDkn9zMk4W6_rBHFIEMq_eFl5eoL8kTPRux3zfGZQASTiR_V2SWeMjzo-jiy-jHOXQUZe3LWVsXyX2ftCQYGWIAfxgOZ4r2SqBnfSJo4rph88I_9UBpgF_VOjMK1A3Dukrekm/s2048/DaleEarnhardtInCarCockpit.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1328" data-original-width="2048" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi53YyMKGznDkn9zMk4W6_rBHFIEMq_eFl5eoL8kTPRux3zfGZQASTiR_V2SWeMjzo-jiy-jHOXQUZe3LWVsXyX2ftCQYGWIAfxgOZ4r2SqBnfSJo4rph88I_9UBpgF_VOjMK1A3Dukrekm/s320/DaleEarnhardtInCarCockpit.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /> <p></p><p><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;">Time stood still.</span></p><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">No one moved or breathed.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">No one believed that The Intimidator was mortal.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Certainly he’d walk away from what looked initially like an innocuous hit into the wall.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">This was Daytona, the track that Earnhardt won consistently at and even had captured a 500 victory three years previously.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">A collective gasp was heard.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Hearts sunk.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Mourning began.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">A line was drawn – events that happened before February 18, 2001 and after.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">The day Dale Earnhardt died.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Accidents happen, but he’d always walked away able to race the next time.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Lives forever changed that fateful day.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Healing began.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Dale Earnhardt will never be forgotten.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">His indelible mark is as palpable today as it was then.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Perhaps more.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Then Earnhardt had as many detractors as fans. Fans would boo, jeer, and argue what a terrible competitor he was. A cheat, some would say, or a thug on the race track. Fans of Mark Martin, Rusty Wallace, Darrell Waltrip, and many other drivers couldn’t stand Earnhardt.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">But when he was gone the enormity of Earnhardt’s death reverberated across NASCAR Nation and beyond.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Flags still fly proudly with the “No. 3” and Dale Earnhardt signature. His fans – ardent, loyal, passionate – still remember.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Always.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">He was so much more than a NASCAR star.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Earnhardt was a sports icon, a business entrepreneur, a farmer, a sponsor’s dream, a winning driver, a champion who tied King Richard Petty’s seven championships.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Earnhardt was a jokester, a fierce competitor, and a loyal friend.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">He was a husband, business partner, hunter, and a father.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">His legacy has made him immortal.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">The name Earnhardt will forever be associated with racing – NASCAR – and a host of positive things in the world as his family’s reach is constantly expanding.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Twenty years later and the landscape has changed immensely.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">The one thing that has not changed is the allegiance shown by Earnhardt fans. There are endless stories of how Earnhardt touched their lives.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Others have entire rooms filled with Earnhardt memorabilia.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">What every one of those fans has in common is their love, admiration, and adulation of Dale Earnhardt.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">Twenty years on, as much that has changed, the Earnhardt fans stay the same.</div><div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;"><br /></div>Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-84971404542657327442021-02-14T06:58:00.001-05:002021-02-14T07:05:08.781-05:00Origins of Love & Loyalty: Dale Earnhardt 20 Years Later<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3V_cY08GF8XrtsVy2qH6Ua0IP_idYZHdbH5f4PGBsWQENq_7xt2Zr0kuYdaanmk0tzeNZNqNEPn754RoCOrxvqs7xCQHtoG9O9q8TWC_celkJpQ8Cj746ax3trL7pJXBV3IbMrvEHsTtd/s640/IMG_1611.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="640" data-original-width="480" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg3V_cY08GF8XrtsVy2qH6Ua0IP_idYZHdbH5f4PGBsWQENq_7xt2Zr0kuYdaanmk0tzeNZNqNEPn754RoCOrxvqs7xCQHtoG9O9q8TWC_celkJpQ8Cj746ax3trL7pJXBV3IbMrvEHsTtd/s320/IMG_1611.JPG" /></a></div><p><br /></p>Dale Earnhardt has been gone twenty years, but his life and
legacy live on as do his diehard fans.<p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">For many, losing Earnhardt was the end of NASCAR. For
others, it was a natural transition from father to son. For so many he is still
an icon, a legend, a god.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">But how did this second-generation wheelman garner such
passionate fandom? How did a guy with mediocre luck at the start of his career,
catapult himself to stardom? <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">With 7 championships that tied him with the King of NASCAR,
Richard Petty, and 76 race wins that put him 8<sup>th</sup> on the all-time
wins list, Earnhardt was an unstoppable winning machine.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Even when a trophy from the Daytona 500, the Great American
Race, eluded him for two decades, Earnhardt finally made it to Victory Lane in
1998. Every team member of every NASCAR Cup team lined up to high five and
congratulate Earnhardt on such an auspicious win.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Earnhardt teased, played practical jokes, worked hard away
from the track, and worked even harder on it. He was a damn great friend,
mentor, husband, and father. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">He was a Hero. <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">So how did his self-proclaimed Super Fans discover him and
maintain their loyalty to his memory? <o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Here’s a random sampling of stories from fans I've met throughout the years:<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Ira Coleman Jr.:<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“He was having an autograph session at West Chevrolet Alcoa
Tennessee and everybody was lined out the door waiting on him to show up. When
him and Richard showed up Richard talked first and said folks I apologize for
being late, Dale had scared us to death driving us over from the airport, he
has drove like he was racing @ Bristol, I saw speeds over 100 a few times and
he passed traffic by going up on the curb and every which way. lol The Folks
were lined up for a hundred yards outside and after a hour his manager can't
come in and tell on him that it was time to go, that they had to kiss to pine
and fly on to <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bristolmotorspeedway" target="_blank">Bristol Motor Speedway</a>. Dale said I ain't leaving till I
see everyone and he probably didn't because a man I work with had his autograph
signed around 11 o'clock at night.”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Cathy Ann Brock Manchester remembers, “the time he came to
Orlando, Fla, at K92, and I got his autograph! I never will forget that day
when I seen him!”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Mindy Reno said, “My favorite memory is when I got to meet
Dale Sr on June 22, 2000!”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">David Foytlin:<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“It was at an open house at RCR '89. I had an Earnhardt cap
signed by the crew. I saw Richard sitting off to the side. Took him the hat for
his signature. Told him that I had a spot on it for Dale to sign. He said wait
a minute, took the hat and came back a few minutes later with Dale’s signature.
I cherish that cap so much.”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Joey Cassady:<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“When Dale came to Bowling Green, KY for an autograph
session. It was cold and there was a pregnant woman that could not afford a
ticket to get in and was waiting outside in the very cold weather. Dale saw her
and asked her why she was waiting outside and she said she did not have a
enough money for a ticket and it was her wedding anniversary and she wanted an
autograph for her husband. Dale said let’s take a ride to the airport and he
gave her his jacket off his back and some other stuff and ask if she had a name
for the baby yet and she said no and he said Dale is a good name. He was a
warrior on the track and a classy guy off the track.”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Brian Scott Gregory:<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“The ultimate was when I was at the MI track in August of
'98 and got to meet him, shake his hand and sat down with him and had a drink. Now
that as awesome. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He didn’t treat me any
different then he would have anyone else, and I didn’t treat him different. We
sat and had a few drinks and talked about the weather and fishing and hunting. Not
one word was mentioned about racing other then he did say about Jr. (I just don’t
know what I'm gonna do with that boy, he just won’t listen to anyone). Gotta
love it!”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Michael McHone:<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“I also met Dale and Richard. They came to a grand opening
for a Chevy dealer in Alaska. I have both their autographs on my copy of the
1994 Winston cup yearbook, the year of his last championship. What great people
they were. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>NASCAR took a big loss when Dale
passed away.”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">John Flock:<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“He made an appearance at Fulton Speedway on one Watkins
Glen weekend. After more than an hour of signing autographs, I had a private
meeting with him in the office. All went well, talking of his dad's exploits in
the 50's. When that first race hit the track, he stood up and said, ‘I gotta
go. Can't stand to watch races when I'm not in a car.’”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Mark L. Bardin:<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“Years ago, after a race in NH a friend of mine stopped at a
restaurant. The place was packed. They sat my friend and his wife at a table
for 6. They ordered there meals and as they we’re waiting in walked Dale Sr, Jr,
Dale’s wife and (not sure)Jeffery. There was no place for them to eat so my
friend noticed them and walked over and offered to have them sit with them.
Dale accepted and was very kind, pleasant. Dry down to earth for such a famous
man and family. My friend has since passed and lived in Pawlet, VT. I’m from
Granville, NY right over the border from Pawlet, VT. Hearing the story and the
the passing of Dale which I saw on TV was devastating . My father died in my
arms at a basketball game up in the stands at 51 yearrs old . We worked
together every day. Went to Dirt track racing together. We were very close. So,
I relate to JR when his dad passed. I always wanted to meet them. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Jr. and I have red hair.”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Daniel Pascale:<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“I watched him in 1979. He was rookie of the year. I
couldn't stop watching him. My mom knew where I was every Sunday. He was my
hero.”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Mary Elizabeth Gibson Peace<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“Love Dale for The Kindness He Showed To Others & Never Wanted
Any Recognition For It... He Put on This Hard Core But Really Had A Heart Of
Gold....”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Dennis Baker<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“Dale Earnhardt was one hell of a driver. I started liking
him in the 80’s. I was and am a huge Chevy guy. The day he passed Bill Elliot
in the grass he was my guy from then on. I’ve watched him go between two cars
in turn one at Atlanta to pass them both. Come from 18 to win in 5 laps at ‘dega
. I saw him win his last race at ‘dega and run his last at Daytona. I even
named a dog I had after him.”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Greeta Burbage<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“I loved the man he was and always will be the best ever, if
I had to work on a weekend I would record the race and every break I’d be in my
car listening to it on the radio!! He was the MAN!!”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Brian Blevins<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“I became a fan based on his sheer determination and will to
win… his driving ability was unmatched…”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Gerry Hamelton<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“I remember one time after a race that he won on the last
lap. Someone asked Dale why he had taken the leader out.<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">His answer was, ‘I wanted to win the race.’”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Lorie White<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“I love watching Dale Sr. and Dale Jr. racing together. But
after Dale Sr. passed away Dale Jr. became my favorite driver.”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Donna Lama Larson<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“He was my favorite driver, I met him a few times, nice guy.
Was at the race when he was killed, broke my heart. Cried For days. NASCAR died
when we lost him.”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Keith Cox<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">“Dale was a real deal... raced you hard whether for the win
or just to get back/put you a lap back!!!!”<o:p></o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Zack Ireland<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">“I was at my friend’s daughter’s birthday party. They had
the race on TV. I had no idea who Earnhardt was. They asked what car I liked,
it was the black number 3. It’s the coolest car on the track. The rest is
history. Forever a fan, followed him ever since.”<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Joyce Domini<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">“I became a fan when he was rookie of the year, when I was
in Daytona watching the race when he drove the yellow and green Chevy. He was
bumper to bumper on everybody in his way. I could not take my eyes off him. That
was the first time we went to all races after that in states next to us. Alabama,
Atlanta, Daytona, Darlington. Two a year at each place, then I got to meet him
in Daytona, he was staying in the same hotel I was in.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I was so excited. I saw the mark key that
said welcome Dale Earnhardt. I first thought it was just to Daytona, but it was
to the hotel. Someone said he was at the beach with his family. I sat by the
pool until he came up. I had my picture taken with him. My husband started
talking to him, because had won lots of trophies in drag racing and could talk
on his level. He visited with us a while, he was the nicest man. I also meet
Richard Childress, he was so nice also.”<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Ray E. Shelton<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">“I started watching Dale after reading an article about he
and the death of his father. He drew my attention and his struggle to race in
the NASCAR series was something that I felt drawn to. He was a no mess with
driver that put his all into his racing. From his first full time season (‘79 )
to the beginning of an amazing career. Many hated him including drivers, but
deep down it was like I was him. He worked hard away from the racetrack. When
he had a bad race, I felt awful and grumpy then had a bad week myself. He was
someone I looked up to and I couldn’t wait for the next race. The more I found
out about him the more I followed him. The day we lost him my heart broke and I
never hid the fact that I cried like was my best friend.”<o:p></o:p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXClh6Qfkk0Yz0YOC4orZ_svfckQbA23UcfQ8Doy-0fMhYf06HZ3v5Uwu79oV1BnHwIP-od4zVpyarA3d3YBvle0tHmT-WtxHW9WJTyhAooxtE1fR6Zo-YuUq_u6vHy1SicJ4hYBU49cj3/s1187/Dale+Earnhardt+Flag.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="742" data-original-width="1187" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXClh6Qfkk0Yz0YOC4orZ_svfckQbA23UcfQ8Doy-0fMhYf06HZ3v5Uwu79oV1BnHwIP-od4zVpyarA3d3YBvle0tHmT-WtxHW9WJTyhAooxtE1fR6Zo-YuUq_u6vHy1SicJ4hYBU49cj3/s320/Dale+Earnhardt+Flag.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">There are as many stories as there are fans. There are as
many “3” Flags that fly at races as any other number. New generations learn
from others about “The Man In Black” and “The Intimidator”. <o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Dale Earnhardt lives on forever and continues to leave an
indelible mark on his fans that will never go away.<o:p></o:p></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p>Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-38787712458611086832021-01-01T09:02:00.001-05:002021-01-01T09:03:33.554-05:00Candice Smith, Chief 187, Christmas CandiWelcome to my page!<div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOHUHs75ubmcM6_wMuUCGyKksoWpwr-qielXXAT0Iyn7GDH92MymjMPvx5m9uW6FbutWsxBdp1VnYF17FxRObUd4S9GwzNf5_L0xv9XSXJRFH_oUTLIRxcN90b1xrFFTbZfJEZYjO1gaIp/s900/CS1218W.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="600" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhOHUHs75ubmcM6_wMuUCGyKksoWpwr-qielXXAT0Iyn7GDH92MymjMPvx5m9uW6FbutWsxBdp1VnYF17FxRObUd4S9GwzNf5_L0xv9XSXJRFH_oUTLIRxcN90b1xrFFTbZfJEZYjO1gaIp/s320/CS1218W.jpg" /></a></div><br /><div><br /><div><br /></div><div>My name is Candice Smith and I am thrilled you have found your way to this spot to find out more about me and what I do.</div><div><br /></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">First and foremost, I am a wife and mother of three. I work hard in my community as a Board of Education trustee (in my second elected term) as well as work as a paraprofessional in a lovely school. Although I am also a licensed teacher, I work as a para because it fits the schedule I want to keep to raise my own children who are still at home.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">Second, I am a three-time published author of the following books: <b><i>Christmas Candi: A Guide To Year-round Holiday Bliss</i></b>, <b><i>The Man Behind the Beard</i></b> co-authored by Pat Ficcio, and <b><i>Drafting the Culinary Circuits </i></b>co-authored by Eddie Crowther. <b><i>Drafting the Culinary Circuits</i></b> was a limited run book for 2020. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgaa4sDFwN7cG3TJ1eMgLKlpUqwv6BeBzYEDpRiIdeS0xEsVlCrjiNUTde-uiBgJl5UZ60T1DyXnfuM3x7kGtKN2on8D30rbX2Ih89zh-McFBgqyDTHYcQuCn7Hv7cKN5uXPoyS_s53AIyq/s2048/Christmas_Candi_Display_2018-09.19.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1366" data-original-width="2048" height="168" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgaa4sDFwN7cG3TJ1eMgLKlpUqwv6BeBzYEDpRiIdeS0xEsVlCrjiNUTde-uiBgJl5UZ60T1DyXnfuM3x7kGtKN2on8D30rbX2Ih89zh-McFBgqyDTHYcQuCn7Hv7cKN5uXPoyS_s53AIyq/w252-h168/Christmas_Candi_Display_2018-09.19.jpg" width="252" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_0Nl041evQT4ZVh4gE6tnNuj6Epa4Id1GGhIBenrrs7ZWtzoXdOuTYi673v2VwqwSl_1YzmQghAWpZ5mzn6G2XEmYUcH3q2yg206y_u0Pi04_hqyL27VZZ6fQeHvP-LqtoMFSTjUXBae6/s2048/The+Man+Behind+the+Beard+3D_Mockup_2019.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1366" data-original-width="2048" height="169" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_0Nl041evQT4ZVh4gE6tnNuj6Epa4Id1GGhIBenrrs7ZWtzoXdOuTYi673v2VwqwSl_1YzmQghAWpZ5mzn6G2XEmYUcH3q2yg206y_u0Pi04_hqyL27VZZ6fQeHvP-LqtoMFSTjUXBae6/w252-h169/The+Man+Behind+the+Beard+3D_Mockup_2019.jpg" width="252" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgirC9BZ8ovt57t4NXYcEeoOOdCMHKUEjZMs29FGqRYwx2oPb-1Fj8iD-xwXe1WbYXB_EHV158odm5WPxpwtqy4pmaiune9SxFl5cJMtd67eFxevv1TkqhOaFoBIITEs03Q4UMTIEEbdd82/s960/DTCC+front+cover.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="720" height="207" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgirC9BZ8ovt57t4NXYcEeoOOdCMHKUEjZMs29FGqRYwx2oPb-1Fj8iD-xwXe1WbYXB_EHV158odm5WPxpwtqy4pmaiune9SxFl5cJMtd67eFxevv1TkqhOaFoBIITEs03Q4UMTIEEbdd82/w155-h207/DTCC+front+cover.jpg" width="155" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">Currently I am working on writing a book with my father about his lifelong love affair and ownership of automobiles. My dad used to write a popular series of articles that we are actively crafting into his memoirs. I also have a book in the planning stages about life, love, marriage, and parenthood.</span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: inherit;">I have written thousands of articles. Many of those articles were about Motorsports, specifically NASCAR and INDYCAR. I used to helm a website that offered these articles plus other articles from different writers about Formula One, ARCA, and other forms of Motorsports. At that website we also ran an Internet radio program titled "Drafting the Circuits" with a diverse and talented panel of writers and broadcasters who talked about and interviewed major talents </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #0f1111; font-family: inherit;">including the legendary Mario Andretti, NASCAR Hall of Famer Bobby Allison, IndyCar legend Bobby Unser, 10-time ARCA champion Frank Kimmel, and Indianapolis 500 champion Alexander Rossi among scores of others In addition, I secured media credentials for Drafting the Circuits to cover races from the Indianapolis 500 to the United States Grand Prix at the Circuit of the Americas, and NASCAR races at Texas Motor Speedway, Kentucky Speedway, Las Vegas Motor Speedway, and Pocono International Raceway.</span></div><div><span style="background-color: white; color: #0f1111; font-family: inherit;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">During the 2020 Holiday Season I posted daily Holiday Hints on social media. They were so well-received and many became the basis for articles that appeared weekly from Thanksgiving Week through New Year's Eve.</span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">2021 promises to be another prolific year in terms of my writings. Monthly articles will be published while I continue to create books for future publication. The "Holiday Hints" will sprinkle the Internet periodically and become Daily Hints once September 2021 rolls around. </span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">Thank you for coming to this page to learn more about Candice Smith/Chief 187/Christmas Candi. You can find me on Facebook at the following pages where I post original content:</span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">https://www.facebook.com/ChristmasCandi187</span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">https://www.facebook.com/santabeardless</span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">https://www.facebook.com/DraftingtheCulinaryCircuits</span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">https://www.facebook.com/Chief187s</span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">Instagram:</span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">https://www.instagram.com/chief187s</span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">Pinterest: </span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">https://www.pinterest.com/chief187</span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">Twitter:</span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">https://twitter.com/Chief187s</span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;">Feel free to read the blogs that populate this site and check back for new ones in 2021. If you are following me on social media, you'll be alerted. </span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #0f1111;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /><div><br /></div></div></div>Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-73127484295721260112020-05-01T07:13:00.001-04:002020-05-01T07:13:45.623-04:00Mother's Day Gift Guide 2020 By: Candice Smith<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Mother’s Day is approaching. It is May 10th this year. This means I’m giving you a head’s up and enough time to do more than give your mom a perfunctory card, a last minute phone call, or a hug. In these times of social distancing, uncertainty, and stress, Mom deserves some happiness.<br />
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Moms are special, and, as flawed as they may be (I speak from experience, I have three children and am flawed to the max) they tend to love their children wholly and completely.<br />
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So, in honor of Moms’ special day that arrives only once per year, why not take a few extra minutes, the money you were saving for a new video game or concert ticket, and splurge on your mom. I’m giving you notice and I don’t believe you’ll find a bigger return on your investment.<br />
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Guys, your wife who is the mother of your child(ren) may not be your mother, but she is the mother of your child(ren). She’s more than worthy of a nice gift just like your mom is. Remember, Father’s Day is next month and a good turn this month most certainly will yield a great one for your special day!<br />
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So, here’s my gift guide for Mother’s Day. Yes, it’s skewed to my tastes and desires. What do you expect, my name is on the title?! But, I am a woman, a mother, and think I have an insight into what other mothers may enjoy receiving.<br />
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<b>Jewelry </b>– This can’t be a surprise for any of you. Most women I know, albeit not all, love jewelry of some kind. Diamonds may be out of the price range (but if they’re not, go that route), but jewelry doesn’t have to be. Mother’s pieces, birthstone styles, initials, or anything she admires is appropriate. Although I adore fine jewelry our budget does not always have room for that. Costume jewelry is a lovely way to commemorate Mom, too. Even Rainbow loom bracelets or friendship bracelets made by the children is a lovely gesture. Find something that suits her taste and shows her you were thinking about her.<br />
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<b>Framed Art</b> – If you have children like I do your house is overrun with art projects from school. They hang from the refrigerator, the wall, sit in piles on the counter tops, and fill up storage bins in the basement. Sometimes I purge after taking digital pictures of the masterpieces, but mostly I have them saved. But there are a couple from each child that are so beautiful, meaningful, and sentimental to me that I have had them framed. Make or pick one of the children’s best works of art to be professionally framed and present it to Mom.<br />
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<b>Spa day/1/2 day/hour</b> – It is very sweet when my family gives me a scented lotion, bottle of nail polish, or a back scratcher, but I rarely have the time to scratch my back or the other more time-consuming tasks. Having me luxuriate for as little as one hour or up to a full day would be a truly sensational. Spas and salons will need business (EVERY business will need business) so pick up a gift certificate now and when life resumes normalcy, Mom has something to look forward to and you have helped keep a business afloat.<br />
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<b>A chaise lounge, a book, and some peace and quiet</b> – I actually received this gift many years ago when I was pregnant with my last child. It was, and, to this day, still is my favorite (non-jewelry) gift. I still have the chaise lounge, books needing reading, but somehow, with three kids in the house, have lost track of the peace. One day I’ll find it! As for books to gift, I have three great titles to offer: Christmas Candi: A Guide to Year-round Holiday Bliss, The Man Behind the Beard, and Drafting the Culinary Circuits. All are available on Amazon.<br />
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<b>Plants/trees</b> – Cut flowers are very nice and pretty, but they are dead and fade quickly. But a flowering plant or tree is a gift that gives joy for years on end. Make planting part of the gift unless Mom loves to get her hands dirty in this way.<br />
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<b>Tickets to something and a babysitter</b> – When social distancing gets faded out, plan to take her out. Theater her thing, find a local production. Concerts turn her on, take Mom to hear her favorite band/singer. Does she love racing (and what woman doesn’t)? Find a local track and enjoy! Depending on the activity, arrange in advance to get Mom a sitter and let her have grown-ups only night. But, if it is something the whole family might enjoy, then get them involved, too! There is so much to do in most communities, from minor league baseball games to fantastic productions that going out need not be expensive, difficult, or far. And, as mentioned above, plan now to anticipate the fun later when the world reopens for business.<br />
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<b>Breakfast/brunch out</b> – Breakfast in bed may sound nice, but crumbs get everywhere and usually Mom ends up doing all of the dishes. This time, give Mom ample time to take a shower and beautify, and order the family takeout from a great place for breakfast/brunch. This meal is typically far less expensive than dinner and starts the day on the right foot. Then make sure to have the children do the dishes (with supervision if they aren't old enough to handle the job alone).<br />
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<b>Romance her</b> – Obviously a tip for the husbands of the Mom. Moms are so mired in raising the children, managing the home, work, and all the other details she is in charge, that making time for romance is scarcely done. But it is so vastly important. Once the children have given their crepe paper corsages, “spoiled mom” and gone to bed, Dad/husband/boyfriend/significant other/lover can swoop in and make Mom feel like a woman and nothing like a mom. Read up on it people, there are a lot of ways to go about it!<br />
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Mostly Mother’s Day is a day to make Moms feel completely and utterly appreciated, respected, and loved.<br />
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I’m wishing my mother, my mother-in-law, and all of the mothers out there a very Happy Mother’s Day on May 10th.<br />
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In the meantime, I hope y’all got some ideas and will implement the ones that work for you and Mom in time for her special day.<br />
<br />Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-28818192253362770472020-04-28T09:04:00.000-04:002020-04-28T16:00:11.935-04:00The Historical Significance of NASCAR and Dale Earnhardt By: Candice Smith<br />
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After earth-shattering events, NASCAR has always been there
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Leading the pack of NASCAR drivers who brought a feeling of
hope, optimism, and victory to America was none other than Dale Earnhardt. On what
would have been his 69<sup>th</sup> birthday, I have gathered historical events
that rocked America and how watching Earnhardt’s stellar career unfold made those
stressful times in America a bit more bearable. In no way am I implying the
tragedies and Earnhardt’s success were related or had anything to do with one
another, simply Earnhardt’s victories and Cup championships continued to occur
despite national tragedies.<o:p></o:p></div>
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In Dale Earnhardt’s storied career with 76 NASCAR Cup Series
race victories and seven NASCAR Cups, he had been a part of the fabric of
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As he was racing for his
first career Cup in 1980, the country dealt in May with the eruption of long-dormant
Mount St. Helens in Washington state. Although certainly not related in any
way, it is part of a pattern that Americans looked to their passion for NASCAR
and its heroes to make it through.<br />
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As 1986 dawned, the Space Shuttle Challenger disaster rocked
the American space program and the country when all eyes watched live as the
explosion occurred. That same year Earnhardt had a remarkable season in NASCAR
winning five races and tying up the Cup one week before the season’s end. <o:p></o:p></div>
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In May of 1987, the USS Stark was fired upon during the Iran-Iraq
war. That year Dale Earnhardt showed brilliance by winning 11 races his third NASCAR
Cup championship, and a back-to-back one at that! <o:p></o:p></div>
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The year 1990 saw the mobilization of American troops after
Iraq invaded Kuwait. Earnhardt once again had a dominate season in NASCAR and won
his fourth Cup after winning nine races. <o:p></o:p></div>
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By 1991 American soldiers were participating in Operation
Desert Storm to liberate Kuwait. Airstrikes began against Iraq and military
families were put under enormous strains. Earnhardt raced hard, acquired four
victories and another back-to-back Cup that totaled five for The Intimidator.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The first bombing of the World Trade Center in New York City
occurred in January 1993. By spring of that year people tuned in daily to learn
evermore about the Branch Davidian compound in Waco, Texas while a massive
snowstorm labeled “The Storm of the Century” blanketed the eastern United States
“from Canada to Mexico” for three days in late March. Meanwhile, Earnhardt won six
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In 1994 the country was mesmerized and horrified by the OJ
Simpson arrest for the murder of his wife. In addition, America’s favorite
pastime, Major League Baseball, struck a sour note with its fans that still
reverberates to the present when they went on strike. NASCAR kept powering on,
collecting more fans. Earnhardt, in yet another back-to-back Cup, earned his
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The loss of Dale Earnhardt, on February 18, 2001, left the
sport and the country reeling. A seemingly indestructible sports hero was
fallen in what looked like a benign accident at first. The news of Earnhardt’s
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True to form, NASCAR went on with the next scheduled race a
week later held at the North Carolina Speedway in Rockingham. The winner of that
race was Dale Earnhardt Inc. driver Steve Parks. <o:p></o:p></div>
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In July of 2001 Dale Earnhardt Jr. drove his DEI-backed No.
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Then the unthinkable happened on September 11, 2001. And the
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But NASCAR was there for America. After the attacks on September
11, 2001, Dale Earnhardt, Jr. drove his No. 8 to victory lane at Dover Downs
International Speedway and then drove his victory laps waving an enormous American
flag. The crowd wept with every emotion they had been feeling since the attacks
had occurred, and since Earnhardt's death. It was a form of healing. It offered hope.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Fast forward to 2020. Now there is a global pandemic that has kept NASCAR’s
engines silent for six weeks and counting. The iRacing with Earnhardt, Jr. and
other NASCAR drivers and drivers from other series is filling a void, but
unable to quench the thirst of America’s collective need of live NASCAR racing.
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It has been nearly two decades since we lost Dale. For many
it still feels like yesterday. And Dale Earnhardt, Jr. retired from NASCAR’s
Cup series at the end of the 2017 season, yet there are still many heroes on
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As we remember Dale Earnhardt on his birthday, let us honor
him and his greatness by bringing the engines roaring back to life! If history
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<br />Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-60961679169058740072020-02-25T16:30:00.001-05:002020-02-25T16:30:24.762-05:00Happy Birthday, Davey Allison<br />
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If you are a longtime NASCAR fan you undoubtedly know the
name Allison. Bobby Allison was inducted to the second class of the
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Bobby had two sons, Davey and Clifford, who were following in their
dad’s tire tracks. Unfortunately, tragedy struck twice in the Allison family.
First, fate claimed Clifford on August 13, 1992 at Michigan International
Speedway during practice for the Detroit Gasket 200 in the NASCAR Busch Series.
Injuries sustained on the track took the young Allison’s life. Within a year,
on July 12, 1993, while piloting his helicopter to Talladega to take part in
the race, Davey Allison crashed and perished.<o:p></o:p></div>
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As a mother, I cannot imagine the unbreakable sadness that
would grip me losing not just one but also two of my sons. The enormity would
be too much for me to bear. And then, as an extra cruel twist of fate, having
the death dates less than a year apart and at the same time of the month would
simply do me in. Bobby, having dealt with his own tragic career-ending crash,
was dealt the most unfair of hands, and yet, to this day, is still a great
ambassador for NASCAR. He does what most of us take for granted; he gets up
each morning and breathes. For those of you who have lived through tragedy and
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The Allisons were a dynasty in NASCAR; a racing family that
was supposed to endure through the generations. Davey and younger brother
Clifford were talented and good and primed to be the next generation of the
“Alabama Gang”. Davey, several times, was a breath away from sitting at the
lead table at the Waldorf Astoria. Many have pondered, “What if Davey lived”
scenarios that include “would Dale Earnhardt have won as many Cups?” No one
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2020 marks what would have been Davey Allison’s fifty-ninth birthday.
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that. It was important for me to bring
Davey’s name back to the forefront for a moment. I’m sure Bobby hasn’t
forgotten; I just wanted him to know, I haven’t forgotten either.</div>
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While recovering from a New Year’s illness last week, I had
a block of time to watch something on Netflix. With no children around to curb
what I’d watch, I chose a drama that seemed riveting to me. <b><i>A Marriage
Story</i></b> was the name and it stars Scarlett Johansson, Adam Driver, Laura
Dern, Ray Liotta, and Alan Alda among others. I felt I couldn’t go wrong. I knew
the premise of the movie – a couple was in the process of a divorce – but felt
certain there would be a happier ending as the title is <b><i>A Marriage Story</i></b>.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Because I’m absolutely tired, fed up, and over movies where
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Let me offer a personal backstory:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>my husband and I are celebrating our 27<sup>th</sup>
wedding anniversary on January 9<sup>th</sup>. It’s a big number for any couple,
but especially since I am 47 and he 50. In fact, we’ve actually been together
since I was 14 and he 17. So, Happy Endings mean a lot to him and me.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Realizing that many marriages end in divorce is a fact I’ve
lived with my entire life. My husband and I have had great marriage models in
our parents and grandparents – all married for over fifty years. But my
brothers are both divorced, friends from all parts of our lives are divorced.
It’s an epidemic.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Whereas I understand Art has a duty to show divorce for
those going through it to understand they are not alone, where is that for
couples who want to sustain?<o:p></o:p></div>
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Disney has even done away with “classic” fairy tale endings.
Apparently having our daughters believe being a Princess is fine, but in no way
should she ever love or have faith in a Prince.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I am a mother of two sons and one daughter. I have a vested
interest in raising both sexes to the light. To show them a world that allows
them to be the best they can be, AND to learn to love unabashedly so when they choose
a mate, they can defy the odds and collect years upon years of wedding
anniversaries like their parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Perhaps an over-simplification, but I think today’s youth – Hell,
today’s Society – NEEDS romantic movies, books, and media where the couple
STICKS TOGETHER. Where the relationship is held in high esteem, is WORTH
WORKING ON, and is a source of COMFORT, not a death knell to happiness.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Marriage is worth the time, the commitment, and the work.
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Should every marriage last? No, not in my opinion.
Surprised? Don’t be. I know some marriages are toxic, unhealthy to both. Sometimes
addiction, abuse, and culture are insurmountable. I believe those people need
to be let go of their vows and find health and happiness apart. <o:p></o:p></div>
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My cousin married her love yesterday. She was a beautiful
bride and he a handsome groom. They are educated, are gainfully employed, and
seem to be blissfully in love. The bride’s parents have been happily married
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But I worry. Is she equipped with the tools to stick with
the marriage when it doesn’t seem fun? When romance wains, financial crisis
hits, or children invade the status quo, will they dig in and work hard, or secure
lawyers to get out? Does he have a marriage model or are his folks apart?<o:p></o:p></div>
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person who, frankly, loves love, but this movie <b><i>A Marriage Story </i></b>truly
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As for my husband and me, our lives are NOT perfect. Far
from it. We fight, we argue, we face uncertainties, we are living a fast-paced
life. We bring insecurities to the table daily, and we continue to evolve. The
marriage has taken a beating in the nearly three decades since we said our
vows. But it still has a strong heartbeat. There is love, passion, and
compassion. <o:p></o:p></div>
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A few days ago I worried about what to gift my husband for
our 27<sup>th</sup> Anniversary. Money is tight. He likes experiences more than
things in this stage in his life. I’m not so creative that way.<o:p></o:p></div>
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What I’m giving him is this, my staunch defense of Marriage.
The knowledge that no matter how badly he screws up, I love him and will stand
by him. And, conversely, that no matter how badly I screw up, I hope he will
continue to love me as fervently as he has for these last 33 years. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I love my husband and cannot imagine a world without him. This
is our Marriage Story. It stars Ryan and Candice Smith, not Adam Driver and
Scarlett Johansson. It ends with a marriage intact, not another couple divorced.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Happy Anniversary, Honey. I love you always and forever. I
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When a dream comes to fruition it is a heady experience!
Dreams make life worth living. And when a dream that has seemed out of reach
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Next month my dream, my life-long dream, becomes reality!<o:p></o:p></div>
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I’ve written and am now publishing my first book! <o:p></o:p></div>
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Blogging became an excellent way for me to write. It started
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Leaving the world of Motorsports in 2016 – I had created and
helmed <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Drafting the Circuits</b>, a Motorsports
website with original articles, an Internet radio weekly program, and a site
that provided me media credentials from the Indianapolis 500, Circuit of the
Americas for Formula One, and Pocono International Raceway among many others –
gave me the time to write my book.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Many thought the topic of my book would center on
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I employ year-round techniques that make Christmas and other
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I’ve packaged my tips, recipes, gift-guides, how-tos, and
personal anecdotes into my first book entitled <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Christmas Candi:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A Guide to Year-Round Holiday Bliss</i></b>!<o:p></o:p></div>
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Candi:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A Guide to Year-Round Holiday
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Be sure to get it for your home, and, remember, it makes an
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Since I began my Internet career, the support I’ve had has
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With the publication of <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Christmas Candi:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A Guide to Year-Round Holiday Bliss</i></b>,
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I believe you will truly read and use this book each and
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<br />Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-54329654144351430482018-07-30T13:50:00.002-04:002018-07-30T13:50:39.316-04:00Tim Richmond<br />
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Recently I’ve been reading about one of NASCAR’s fallen
heroes, a driver from the 1980s whose star shown very brightly for an all too
brief period of time. His name was Tim Richmond.<o:p></o:p></div>
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If you missed his era you may not know a lot or anything
about him. I became a fan of NASCAR in 1990 and missed everything about
Richmond. While I was filling my coffers of NASCAR history, NASCAR past and
present, and NASCAR now, Richmond’s name was rarely if ever mentioned. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Once I became active on Facebook NASCAR and racing fan sites
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I knew Richmond had a reputation for being a man women
wanted to be with and men wanted to emulate. His racing prowess was enviable as
was his reputation as a lothario. <o:p></o:p></div>
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At a time when jeans, cowboy hats, and big belt buckles were
the dress uniform for many drivers and crew men in and around the garage,
Richmond showed up in Italian suits, feathered and coiffed long hair, and a
devil-may-care attitude. <o:p></o:p></div>
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There was no mistaking his intensity. He was, forgive the
pun, totally driven in a racecar. Whether it was IndyCar or a NASCAR Winston
Cup Car, Richmond drove it to the outer limits. He won many poles in his short NASCAR
Winston Cup career, running hard and fast, some say even recklessly, but found
it difficult initially to win races. Richmond’s first two years in Cup, 1980
and 1981, he had no poles, wins, or Top Fives, but did earn six Top 10s. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Paired with a legendary crew chief, Harry Hyde, in 1986 in
Rick Hendrick’s fledgling stable, Richmond learned to rein in his talent just
enough to produce wins and challenge for a championship. He challenged alright,
but he was denied the championship in that year by his good friend Dale
Earnhardt. Regardless, in that one season Richmond’s statistics were very
impressive. He won eight poles, seven races, and earned 13 Top Fives and 17 Top
10s. Richmond finished third that year, only six points behind Darrell Waltrip
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That was the pinnacle of Richmond’s career. Unbeknownst to
many a disease was riddling Richmond’s body, weakening him and stealing his
thunder in the sport he so desperately loved.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Richmond, it’s now known, had contracted HIV, the virus that
leads to AIDS. This happened at a time when hysteria was high about the disease
and knowledge was pathetically little.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Masking his illness with lies and bravado, Richmond was able
to return to a partial schedule of racing in the Cup scene. With eight races
run in 1987, Richmond captured one pole, two wins, and three Top Fives and four
Top 10s. But those were the last glimpses of Richmond’s greatness.<o:p></o:p></div>
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By summer 1987 Richmond’s erratic behavior akin to
drunkenness and/or drug abuse caused uproar among many of NASCAR’s elite,
drivers, crew members, and NASCAR officials. Not knowing or understanding the
true cause of Richmond’s behaviors – manic moods one moment and sleeping for
hours after that regardless of what appearances were on his itinerary – gave
concern to those he was in close competition.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Drug tests were implemented, results were mishandled, and
judgments were made, right or wrong. All the while Richmond continued to hide
the fact he was fallen with AIDS, desperately taking the only medicinal
cocktail available at the time, AZT. He went so far as to take himself off AZT
to make certain he passed NASCAR’s drug test.<o:p></o:p></div>
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But it was too late. The prejudice against Richmond was
palpable. His career was over in NASCAR. Unfortunately, his health was
deteriorating at a rapid pace as well.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Richmond shook thinks up dramatically in NASCAR. The mostly
Southeastern sport full of good ol’ boys was not sure how to handle the slick
Midwesterner who was a natty dresser, had “pretty hair”, and ran his racecar at
11/10s at every outing on a track.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Richmond not only brought a Hollywood feel to NASCAR for the
time he was present, but he would posthumously bring a discussion to the table
about AIDS affecting the NASCAR community, not just the homosexual or Hollywood
ones.<o:p></o:p></div>
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That conversation has only gone so far. Even after noted
journalist David Poole wrote a book about Richmond, who died on August 13,
1989, entitled “<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Tim Richmond: The Fast
Life And Remarkable Times Of NASCAR’s Top Gun</i>” (2005) I still heard
remarkably little about this man in the sport I had grown to love.<o:p></o:p></div>
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If nothing else, I’d love to read what others think,
remember, and reminisce about Tim Richmond from those who actually saw him
race. So, I’m opening the comments up to you all to do just that. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Teach me about the Tim Richmond I cannot access through
books and YouTube clips. I’d love to learn more about NASCAR’s most dynamic
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<br />Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-1877933261429514992018-07-13T08:26:00.002-04:002018-07-13T08:26:30.825-04:00Remembering Davey Allison<br />
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Today is bittersweet as it is the 25th Anniversary of losing Davey Allison.</div>
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For those of you who don’t remember this son of racing
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Although he never won a Cup, Davey Allison was in the middle
of a very promising and successful career in NASCAR’s top level of competition
when he was killed in a helicopter crash in Talladega, Alabama.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Along with his famous racing father Bobby and uncle Donnie
Allison, Neil Bonnett, and Red Farmer, Davey Allison was a famed member of the
Alabama Gang. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Allison began his Cup career in 1987 winning Rookie of the
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At the start of the 1988 season Davey Allison finished
second to his father Bobby Allison’s victory at the Great American Race. This
was the first father/son one/two finish in the Daytona 500.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Life changed irreversibly in June of 1988 when father Bobby
Allison was involved in a career-ending accident that propelled Davey Allison,
the oldest of four children, into the role of decision-making man of the
family.<o:p></o:p></div>
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In October 1988 Robert Yates bought the #28 team from Harry
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In addition to the added stresses and family responsibility,
Davey Allison went on to win his third and fourth Winston Cup races landing
eighth in points for his second season in the circuit. <o:p></o:p></div>
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His four year marriage quietly ended by the end of the 1988
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1989 was a fabulous year personally and professionally for
Davey Allison.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Earning his fifth and
sixth wins in Cup, including the Talladega victory that was his second at the
track, Allison finished eleventh in points. He also claimed his second wife,
“Liz”, and welcomed his first child, Krista Marie.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Davey Allison racked up a couple more wins in 1990 bringing
his total Cup wins up to eight. He finished thirteenth in points.<o:p></o:p></div>
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When Larry McReynolds took over crew chief responsibility
for Davey Allison in 1991, the team really gelled. In that season Davey Allison
had <span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: black; font-family: "Arial",sans-serif; font-size: 10.0pt; line-height: 115%;">five wins, 12 top-five and 16
top-ten finishes, and three pole positions. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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for the year, Allison told champion Dale Earnhardt at the Winston Cup Awards
Banquet at the Waldorf Astoria in New York City that the next year, “I’ll be
sitting at the head table!” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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the NASCAR history books once again, Davey Allison won the 1992 Daytona 500.
This feat was the second time a father and son had each won at the historic
track.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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tragedies plagued Davey Allison in the 1992 season, losing his paternal
grandfather and later in the year his younger brother Clifford who was involved
in a horrific accident in Brooklyn, Michigan at the Michigan International
Speedway during a Busch Race practice session. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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trying events, Davey’s heart-breaking situation did not tarnish his place in
the Winston Cup point’s standings.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Phoenix with a win and the points lead, Davey Allison was primed to win the
1992 Winston Cup, but fate was to intervene.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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involving Ernie Irvan, who had lost control of his car and spun in front of
Davey Allison with less than a hundred laps to go, ended Davey’s chances at
winning the Cup at the Atlanta Motor Speedway, the last race of the 1992 season.
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would take that championship beating runner up Bill Elliot and leaving a
disappointed Davey Allison third in points to end the season.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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start to the 1993 season found Davey Allison, who was used to excelling at
Daytona, finishing a dismal 28<sup>th</sup> in the Great American Race. The
following week in Rockingham Davey Allison posted a 16<sup>th</sup>. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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would turn out to be the last of the young Davey Allison’s life. The first half
of the 1993 season would be decent landing him fifth in points and determined
to claw his way back into championship contention in the second half of the
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novice helicopter pilot, wanted to support his fellow Alabama Gang friend Neil
Bonnett and his son David as David was testing a car for his Busch Series debut
at the Talladega Superspeedway in Alabama on July 12, 1993. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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also picked up legendary racer Red Farmer, family friend and member of the
Alabama Gang, tried to land his helicopter at the track but crashed instead.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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heroically rescued a semi-conscious Red Farmer from the wreckage but was unable
to reach Davey Allison. Rescue workers arrived on the scene, freed Allison, and
rushed him to the hospital with serious head injuries.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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pronounced dead on July 13, 1993, the day after the accident, leaving a family
and a NASCAR Nation reeling.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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career Davey Allison posted 19 wins, 66 top-five and 92 top-ten finishes. He
captured 14 poles and earned $6,724,174. He was survived by his wife Liz and
their children Krista Marie and Robert Grey.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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superstardom and potentially a candidate to win several Winston Cups, Davey Allison
could well have cut into Dale Earnhardt’s record-setting seven championships,
Jeff Gordon’s sensational debut in the series, and could have carried on the
dynasty created by his father Bobby and uncle Donnie Allison. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Allison fan, but I saw his talent firsthand. When he passed it hit me hard. I
mourned not only for a great racecar driver, but for a wife who had lost her
husband, young children who had lost and would never know their father, a
mother and father who would mourn the unnatural and punishing reality of laying
to rest not one but two sons, and a NASCAR Family that would never see true
greatness reach its full potential. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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about Davey Allison, Neil Bonnett, Adam Petty, and Dale Earnhardt palling
around together, exchanging war stories with the likes of “Big” Bill France,
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Why vote for Ryan Smith? Isn’t he like ‘the rest of them’? <o:p></o:p></div>
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Absolutely not. He is so far better than the rest of them.
Ryan Smith is extraordinary and he deserves to be your next Hopatcong Borough
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Ryan Smith is the proverbial best neighbor. He is seeking, helpful, and a great listener. He is a go-getter, a doer, a problem solver, and
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Why am I an authority on Ryan Smith? He’s been my husband
for 25 years and my forever love for 32 years. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I’ve been a front row observer of Ryan’s character, actions,
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better for Hopatcong than Ryan Smith. <o:p></o:p></div>
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As a teenager Ryan was active in the Boy Scouts earning his
Life Scout rank, all of the merit badges necessary to earn an Eagle Scout, and
worked tirelessly on a positive community service project any Eagle Scout
candidate would have been heartily congratulated for taking on and completing.
Unfortunately, a SNAFU resulted in Ryan NOT earning his Eagle Scout rank. No
adult went to bat for him. Ryan finished his childhood career as a Life Scout. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Most would have turned their back on the program that turned
its back on them. Not Ryan. Ryan always spoke positively about the Boy Scouts
of America program and told me from Day One that whether or not God blessed him
with sons, he would volunteer for BSA so he could do for others what others had
selflessly done for him.<o:p></o:p></div>
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As luck and God’s blessing would have it, we have two sons
and Ryan has been as good as his word and better. He’s mentored boys and adult
leaders good-naturedly and steadily, never wavering from answering questions,
guiding, leading, mentoring, and encouraging. <o:p></o:p></div>
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“Everything cool I ever learned, I learned in Boy Scouts,”
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Ryan has earned all of his college degrees as an adult.
While holding a full time job, raising a young family, and being a positive
member of the community, Ryan earned two bachelor degrees and one master’s. As
difficult as those years were, Ryan never gave up, never stopped, and always
put 100% of himself into all aspects of his academic and non-academic lives.<o:p></o:p></div>
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As a Professional Engineer and Professional Land-Surveyor –
an uncommon dual license – Ryan has always been the man who can
understand/fix/communicate/draw/problem-solve anything that came to his desk.
He is invaluable. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Recently, Ryan was appointed to the Hopatcong Land Use Board
and has shared his expertise at the community level. This is a volunteer post
that takes hours of his time per month. He does it proudly and pours over the
work that needs his attention. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Now Ryan wants to serve you and me as a Hopatcong Borough
Council member. His unbiased approach to problem-solving is so necessary. His
vision for a better tomorrow for Hopatcong can become a reality if we – you and
I – vote him into office.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Please, take a sign, post it on your property, share his
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know that Ryan Smith is the right person for the job. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Please vote Ryan Smith for Hopatcong Borough Council on
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<br />Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-25189193279491844322018-04-29T08:20:00.004-04:002021-04-29T06:37:54.033-04:00The Four C's of Dale Earnhardt By: Candice Smith<div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">
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Twenty years after Dale Earnhardt died I still remember him fondly daily, but especially on his birthday.</div>
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For those who never saw Earnhardt drive or be interviewed in their lifetime I’d like to explain, if possible, why Earnhardt’s mystique remains so potent so long after his departure.</div>
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As I pondered the question myself I came up with the Four C’s of Earnhardt, just like the 4 C’s of buying a diamond!</div>
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Because that’s what Earnhardt was, a diamond. Sometimes he was one in the rough, but in the later years Earnhardt was dazzling, rare, unique, and most precious.</div>
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And now, without further ado, are the Four C’s of Dale Earnhardt.</div>
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Charisma. A few definitions of the word charisma come from www.dictionary.com and are the following:</div>
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<li style="border: 0px none; list-style: outside decimal; margin: 0px 0px 5px 10px; outline: none; padding: 0px;">a spiritual power or personal quality that gives an individual influence or authority over large numbers of people.</li>
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In addition, Earnhardt was a marketer’s dream. Tall, statuesque, strong physique, and with that ever-present signature mustache and twinkle in his eye, Earnhardt had that special something that led people to not only trust him but to like him, really like him.</div>
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People wanted to stand in a room with Earnhardt, be at his side when he was telling a story, and be the one he was hunting, fishing, boating, or partying. They wanted to wear what he wore, drive what he drove, fly his flag, and wear something with his colors, number, and signature.</div>
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Clever. In the world of NASCAR or racing of any kind, you have to be most clever to make a career. Earnhardt not only made a career but created an Empire for the Earnhardts.</div>
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Whether it was owning his signature and marketing it on everything from playing cards to nice jackets and everything in between, or grooming his son Dale Jr. to be in the same business, Earnhardt showed he was the cleverest in the garage.</div>
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Calculating. No doubt about it, Earnhardt was always figuring out how to use his racecar to win. That was the goal each and every week. I never remember Earnhardt talking about points unless his team was fixing the car in the garage and he was telling a reporter they were trying to get it back on the track to make up some points.</div>
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Earnhardt was about winning and doing anything and everything in his power to do so. He would scheme to find a way to use his car and his intimidation to his benefit.</div>
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Winning was important to Earnhardt. Winning poles, winning races, and, of course, winning championships, drove Earnhardt to stay focused and determined.</div>
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He finally won at the Daytona 500.</div>
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And, on the last day of his life, Earnhardt was calculating how to put his DEI drivers into Victory Lane at the Great American Race.</div>
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Character. Earnhardt was, without a doubt, a character in the NASCAR community, in the world of sports, and simply in the universe. He was well-known, respected, feared, loved, and cherished by his family, friends, competitors, and fans.</div>
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There are some who still might malign the man’s actions on the track, but usually that’s because they rooted for the driver Earnhardt beat that week.</div>
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But the fact that Earnhardt’s memory is so palpable to so many, his claim on their hearts so strong and pure, proves that his character was and is immeasurable.</div>
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Many who knew him say that when Earnhardt put his arm around your shoulder you knew you were in for something – counseling, advice, constructive criticism, or maybe a joke or a good word.</div>
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If Earnhardt was mad at you, you were certain to make it right as soon as possible. The only thing more intimidating than The Intimidator was when The Intimidator had a beef with you.</div>
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But Earnhardt had a huge capacity for love, a reputation for true friendship, and modeled hard work paying off in spades.</div>
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Earnhardt’s character was unquestionably the reason folks from all around, from all walks of life, looked up to and cheered Earnhardt’s No. 3.</div>
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Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-25113116041898000652018-03-11T19:15:00.001-04:002018-06-13T06:46:16.051-04:00Wear the Swimsuit<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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The other day I was spending my lunch with my favorite ladies at my new place of work. We have shared all kinds of conversations in the past few months and we have become fast friends. The topic of swimming came up and one of the lovely women at our table said she wouldn't don a swimsuit so it was a non-topic for her. This made me sad.<br />
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My whole life I have spent swimming. I cannot remember a time I didn't know how to swim and I know I was always happiest in the water. My mother, too, loves to swim. She scoured the stores for beautiful swimsuits to wear in what is now considered a "plus-size". She has had hundreds in my lifetime. No matter what her size she'd find lovely suits, sexy suits, colorful suits to wear so she could swim.<br />
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As a child I always had a bigger frame than a lot of my peers. But I didn't care, I loved to swim and so I put on my swim suit and lived in the water. As a teen, when body image was most acute, I mindlessly put on swimsuits - some one piece, occasionally a two piece encouraged by my then boyfriend/now husband.<br />
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As my body morphed and evolved through pregnancies, childbirth, and, yes, weight gain in middle age, I had different feelings about my form, but I have always, always, always put on the swimsuit.<br />
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I read once that mothers stopped being in the pictures taken of their children and with the family. They became the always-photographer so they could step out of the frame. Consequently, children grew up without their mothers in memories captured on film. It saddened me.<br />
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When I got my first flip phone with camera I started taking "Selfies", the word that has a terrible connotation. Once I got my first iPhone, the selfies became far more numerous.<br />
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It wasn't about being stuck up, vain, or crass, it was about seeing myself and forcing myself to accept and love me. Every time I do a "selfie" photo shoot I pour over the pictures and force myself to choose ones to post that make me happy. I post them to teach myself to accept the me of now, flaws and all. It's not easy, still.<br />
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A few summers ago I saw a news story about a woman who was plus-sized like me, but who wore a swimsuit, took pictures of herself, and posted them on social media with the hashtag #WeartheSwimsuit. She, in essence, was trying to love herself in the here and now so she could have fun and be present with her children. Boy, did that resonate with me.<br />
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So, since then, I, too, have taken pictures of myself in my swimsuit and posted on social media with the hashtag #WeartheSwimsuit. Like my other "selfies", it still takes me a while to find ones that I like and I can tolerate sharing with the world, but I do it. It's my gift to me and ultimately to my children that I accept me and I am a participant in my/our lives.<br />
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Hearing this beautiful, thinner, younger woman at my lunch table lament that she wasn't ever going to wear a swimsuit makes me sad because I know the feeling. We are bombarded - women and men - in society with what we are supposed to look like. It's crap.<br />
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What I did was follow women on social media I want to emulate and who make me happy to see their form. Ashley Graham is a favorite of mine. She's the first plus-size model to win the coveted cover of the annual Sports Illustrated Swimsuit edition a few years back. She's modeled for plus-size store Lane Bryant, and now has her own fashion line for full-figured women.<br />
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When you see images of smart, sexy people with a form similar to your own, you stop hating on yourself so much.<br />
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If posting my pictures on social media helps another woman, or man, feel better about themselves and gives them courage to be themselves, then I'm pleased, But I'm doing this for me and my family.<br />
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Life is happening now. We aren't born with termination dates so I have no idea how long I have. I'm going to continue to live in the moment, post my selfies, #WeartheSwimsuit, and continue to learn to love and accept myself because if I can't love me, no one can.<br />
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Cheers to us, no matter our size, our hair type, or our flaws. Let's simply embrace and celebrate our fabulous qualities!<br />
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<br />Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-42061443008615467782018-02-18T09:13:00.001-05:002021-02-18T06:23:53.977-05:00And Still We Remember By: Candice Smith<div style="background-color: white; border: 0px none; color: #333333; font-family: Tahoma, Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; list-style: none; outline: none; padding: 0px 0px 1em;">
Time stood still.</div>
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No one moved or breathed.</div>
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No one believed that The Intimidator was mortal.</div>
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Certainly he’d walk away from what looked initially like an innocuous hit into the wall.</div>
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This was Daytona, the track that Earnhardt won consistently at and even had captured a 500 victory three years previously.</div>
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A collective gasp was heard.</div>
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Hearts sunk.</div>
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Mourning began.</div>
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A line was drawn – events that happened before February 18, 2001 and after.</div>
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The day Dale Earnhardt died.</div>
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Accidents happen, but he’d always walked away able to race the next time.</div>
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Lives forever changed that fateful day.</div>
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Healing began.</div>
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Dale Earnhardt will never be forgotten.</div>
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His indelible mark is as palpable today as it was then.</div>
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Perhaps more.</div>
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Then Earnhardt had as many detractors as fans. Fans would boo, jeer, and argue what a terrible competitor he was. A cheat, some would say, or a thug on the race track. Fans of Mark Martin, Rusty Wallace, Darrell Waltrip, and many other drivers couldn’t stand Earnhardt.</div>
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But when he was gone the enormity of Earnhardt’s death reverberated across NASCAR Nation and beyond.</div>
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Always.</div>
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He was so much more than a NASCAR star.</div>
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Earnhardt was a jokester, a fierce competitor, and a loyal friend.</div>
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He was a husband, business partner, hunter, and a father.</div>
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His legacy has made him immortal.</div>
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The name Earnhardt will forever be associated with racing – NASCAR – and a host of positive things in the world as his family’s reach is constantly expanding.</div>
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Seventeen years later and the landscape has changed immensely.</div>
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The one thing that has not changed is the allegiance shown by Earnhardt fans. There are endless stories of how Earnhardt touched their lives.</div>
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Others have entire rooms filled with Earnhardt memorabilia.</div>
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What every one of those fans has in common is their love, admiration, and adulation of Dale Earnhardt.</div>
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Seventeen years on, as much that has changed, the Earnhardt fans stay the same.</div>
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Chief 187http://www.blogger.com/profile/09485730643132355212noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2692958826098214952.post-81290007540665490202017-10-10T12:02:00.001-04:002017-10-10T12:02:12.113-04:00Happy Birthday, Dale Earnhardt, Jr.<div class="MsoNormal">
NASCAR’s Most Popular Driver adds another candle to his birthday cake today; he
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As an outsider looking in who has observed Dale Earnhardt
Jr. for many years, it is an exciting time for him.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Introduced to the public as a boy – Dale Earnhardt’s boy –
Dale Jr. was living in the shadow of his famous father. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Growing into a young man with driving talent, we watched as
Dale Jr. raced hard and well and carved a name for himself with two NASCAR Busch
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His father’s strong arms were never far away. His influence
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And then the unthinkable happened and Dale Jr. was left to
live life without his father.<o:p></o:p></div>
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There were ups and downs. Successes and failures. High hopes
and dashed dreams. A parting of the ways between Dale Jr. and Dale Earnhardt
Incorporated was the start of a new chapter in Dale Jr.’s life.<o:p></o:p></div>
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More time elapsed with still more failures on the track than
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Finally a turning point occurred. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Solid finishes, consistency, a driver with focus,
determination, and optimism.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Personally, Dale Jr. seemed happier than ever before. His
smile was genuine, his shoulders not slumped in despair.<o:p></o:p></div>
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And then the 2014 season dawned at Daytona. Dale Jr. won the
Great American race for the second time in his career – a feat even his father
could never claim. <o:p></o:p></div>
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The win took enormous pressure off of the driver and team
under the brand new Chase format as they had secured a spot after the first
race of the season.<o:p></o:p></div>
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But Dale Jr. and his No. 88 team continued to work hard. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Two more wins followed, both at Pocono Raceway. I was
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My vantage point in Victory Lane allowed me to see up close
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In June Dale Jr. shook hands with every crew member, took
endless pictures, and conducted countless television and radio interviews. He
was then escorted into the media center at Pocono Raceway and sat patiently and
unhurriedly answering every question hurled at him. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Dale Jr. answered thoughtfully, spoke eloquently, and was so
in the moment. At the same time he was
calm, present, and so very <i>happy</i>. <o:p></o:p></div>
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In his return to Pocono Raceway in August there was a zest
and confidence that Dale Jr. exuded. Perhaps it was bravado or simply a guy
having fun, but it was different than I’d seen him in the past.<o:p></o:p></div>
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A sweep of Pocono capped Dale Jr.’s summer and showed the
other drivers in the series and Dale Jr.’s fans and detractors that he was,
indeed, a true competitor and, in fact, the real deal.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Of course, the unfailingly loyal fans of Dale Jr. – Junior
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I asked Dale Jr. a question in August 2014 that made him reveal a
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Dale Jr. mentioned Amy first. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Amy Reimann has been Dale Jr.’s companion for several years
and seems to truly make him happy and content. On New Year's Eve 2016 they officially wed. <o:p></o:p></div>
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He also mentioned beer and Redskin football.<o:p></o:p></div>
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For a week following Pocono and my question, any time Dale
Jr. was interviewed the Simple Joy question was re-asked. He changed his answer
slightly, but it was the response he gave me on the spot that shows how deeply
happy – joyful – Dale Jr. is in life.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The 2015 season saw Dale Jr. take home three more wins. But luck hasn't been on the side of the No. 88 team. Winless in both 2016 and currently in 2017, Dale Jr. will have to be satisfied with whatever circumstances ends his 19 years in NASCAR's top series. He has a long list of accomplishments, wins, and Favorite Driver honors to bolster his ego.</div>
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Regardless, Dale Jr. is on top of the world. With personal
life, career, family fulfilling him, Dale Jr. needn’t win a Cup to be
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Dale Jr. will become a NASCAR broadcaster on NBC.<br />This is footage of Dale Jr. guest-broadcasting for Fox.</td></tr>
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At 43 Dale Jr. seems to have figured out what's important in his life, how to re-invent himself, and continue to be the unparalleled ambassador for the sport in which he's lived his entire life.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Happy Birthday, Dale Jr. <o:p></o:p></div>
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